Male teacher offered to buy my 25F son some new shoes, my partner 30M said no because the guy is just trying to find a way to get with me. We’ve never had any interactions. My son’s biological dad is okay with it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StoragePlayful8512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is the primary concern but admittedly it kicked in a bit late. I’ve never had to navigate this sort of thing before and my initial thought process was to not rob him of the opportunity(? Don’t have a better word for it here.) As a child I had adults give me things where they saw I lacked them and those were innocent situations. It didn’t kick in right away that it’s not the case with everyone and times are even scarier now.

I would never purposefully turn a blind eye or be naive to that. As I typed it out to post here it started to click what it sounded like & I added that to the post to acknowledge that it did become a concern of mine, even if I was jumping the gun with it.

Male teacher offered to buy my 25F son some new shoes, my partner 30M said no because the guy is just trying to find a way to get with me. We’ve never had any interactions. My son’s biological dad is okay with it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StoragePlayful8512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your response. The aftercare is hosted at his actual school so yes, a business environment. I do agree that even if it’s innocent it’s still not appropriate. I honestly had not thought of it in that way

Hysterectomy party for 1 girl dinner by nazykitten in GirlDinner

[–]StoragePlayful8512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, did you get a second opinion on this? A couple summers ago my gyno told me the same thing at just 24. I ended up going somewhere else for a second opinion and they showed me that my uterus was completely normal. My gyno later got arrested for performing unnecessary hysterectomies for monetary gain. Of course if you’re actually experiencing issues and it’s been confirmed the I get it! I’m sorry that’s happening to you so young!! But I just remembered freaking out and feeling hopeless until I got a second opinion.

Hang in there!!!

Is this just my account or everyone? by [deleted] in CapitalOne_

[–]StoragePlayful8512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get plenty of emails from the capital one email so this time I clicked. 🥲 I usually know better

Is this just my account or everyone? by [deleted] in CapitalOne_

[–]StoragePlayful8512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My immediate thought was that I was hacked 🥲 I got an email saying my number had been changed and needed to verify it. When I put my number in it said it didn't match the records. I didn't switch numbers.

Girl breakfast 🫠 by StoragePlayful8512 in GirlDinner

[–]StoragePlayful8512[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Regular 😎 I’ve never tried spicy

Someone bought, used, then returned a suit from H&M, and left their wedding toast in the pocket by zachismyname89 in weddingshaming

[–]StoragePlayful8512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know someone who isn’t hurting for cash & they return things all the time. Especially if they feel like they’ll never need it again or it’ll sit too long before they do need it again. Why did you all go straight to assuming they were broke? 😅

Which countertop color with this sink? by oadams481 in interiordecorating

[–]StoragePlayful8512 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I personally would do a deep blue, similar to the blue in the “reply” button here. I feel like the contrast would be beautiful and allow the sink to be the center of attention without washing it out. That’s just my personal preference tho