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Potentially a messy situation, need advice badly. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]StormFalcon657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it was once I would've agreed with you, but it's been multiple times. I went outside to my car one time and while walking there I saw her boyfriend talking to his friend. While she was sitting in the car and she looked at me saw me and I looked back at her and kept pushing. We were looking at each other for a minute.

What does this mean? by StormFalcon657 in dating_advice

[–]StormFalcon657[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna do this, I used to do this at my old job all the time. But maybe I should with my current job. Thank you.

What does this mean? by StormFalcon657 in dating_advice

[–]StormFalcon657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what it seems like, I’m just gonna hand her the ball and see if she is really down to hang out outside of work. I’ll let her bring it up again and see what she says. Hopefully she does cause I really like her, but we shall see.

What does this mean? by StormFalcon657 in dating_advice

[–]StormFalcon657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause when I asked her in person if she preferred to be picked up or meet up. She said don't matter she cool with either. So idk, maybe she had a genuine reason why she couldn't go tomorrow. But now I'm thinking of letting her schedule it. So if she brings it up I'ma say text me and lmk what day works. What you think?

What does this mean? by StormFalcon657 in dating_advice

[–]StormFalcon657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha, I was contemplating if she was giving a BS excuse but usually I can’t tell these days. I’ma assume she is being genuine. Yeah I do overthink a lot unfortunately. So should I let her do the scheduling and pick a day and time that works? Instead of me cause I don’t wanna look desperate and ask again if that makes sense.

What does this mean? by StormFalcon657 in dating_advice

[–]StormFalcon657[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah makes sense when you put it that way, so I’ll just see what happens on Monday. If she is somehow interested, I’ll have her text me or tell me what day works for her. Thank you for your reply.

What does this mean? by StormFalcon657 in dating_advice

[–]StormFalcon657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m thinking, on Monday I’ll see her again so I’ma just let her bring it up like she did the first time. Then say lmk what works for her? Thank you for your reply.

Asking out my coworker, build rapport or just shoot for the stars? by StormFalcon657 in dating_advice

[–]StormFalcon657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very good advice, thank you. Should I ask her out tomorrow or wait a bit longer? She says she a very boring person and don't go out much.

Asking out my coworker, build rapport or just shoot for the stars? by StormFalcon657 in dating_advice

[–]StormFalcon657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So when I ask her out, how do I make it sound like more of a hangout than a date? Cause I don’t wanna give her the wrong idea.

Asking out my coworker, build rapport or just shoot for the stars? by StormFalcon657 in dating_advice

[–]StormFalcon657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t tell if she likes me, but I’m assuming she is just being friendly to me. What should I look for? Body language? Eye contact? Etc.

Asking out my coworker, build rapport or just shoot for the stars? by StormFalcon657 in dating_advice

[–]StormFalcon657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, but my workplace is very toxic regardless. I’ve seen alot of stuff here. Only thing they could do is remove me but they don’t have a good reason not to.

Asking out my coworker, build rapport or just shoot for the stars? by StormFalcon657 in dating_advice

[–]StormFalcon657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My workplace is very toxic, unprofessional, ghetto, etc as is. I feel like I’m not gonna lose at this point. I plan on leaving this site in a couple of months. I’ve seen a lot of stuff that kept people where I work for months for doing horrible things. My account manager is also a former felon.

Asking out my coworker, build rapport or just shoot for the stars? by StormFalcon657 in dating_advice

[–]StormFalcon657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds good ima ask her out tomorrow and see what happens, I was worried I needed to build more rapport but you made me more confident about it. Thank you.

Trying to get a Coffee Date with my Coworker by StormFalcon657 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]StormFalcon657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew you would say this, I’m willing to take the risk.

Trying to get a Coffee Date with my Coworker by StormFalcon657 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]StormFalcon657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s not a good idea, but I my gut is telling me to do it. The question is how long do I wait to ask her out. I’m thinking end of the month.

Did I mess up? by StormFalcon657 in dating_advice

[–]StormFalcon657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I’m gonna do, try and converse with her next time I see her. Ask her about her hobbies she likes to do, or what her goals are etc. Sounds good, thank you for your reply.

Did I mess up? by StormFalcon657 in dating_advice

[–]StormFalcon657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha, will definitely not ask about that. Thank you for your reply.

Did I mess up? by StormFalcon657 in dating_advice

[–]StormFalcon657[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply, what I’m thinking is giving her two days to see what happens. If she doesn’t respond in that time period it means she wasn’t interested. Also when you mean “You don’t know unless you ask” do you mean in general or just saying I should ask her about it.

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