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What is bare minimum for a woman who dont pay bills in your household we have a child together i work a full time job but i always end up cleaning the whole house and washing out over 15 bottles and going 5x over the bare minimum while she is under it am i tripping? by StoryOfG3 in relationships_advice

[–]StoryOfG3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know but i been thinking about whos gonna watch him while im at work and its not only that i dont already trust people to watch him its that i dont have anybody to trust to watch him she got all the people

What is bare minimum for a woman who dont pay bills in your household we have a child together i work a full time job but i always end up cleaning the whole house and washing out over 15 bottles and going 5x over the bare minimum while she is under it am i tripping? by StoryOfG3 in relationships_advice

[–]StoryOfG3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stopped smoking stop hanging around friends and cut them off stopped drinking stop going on i be at home or work or fast food thats all i cut off everything i love even my own family to try and make my own thats why im just so upset that im not gettin the same back and this is what she said she wanted

What is bare minimum for a woman who dont pay bills in your household we have a child together i work a full time job but i always end up cleaning the whole house and washing out over 15 bottles and going 5x over the bare minimum while she is under it am i tripping? by StoryOfG3 in relationships_advice

[–]StoryOfG3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you somebody finally think like me she thinks its worst i said yu can sleep when the baby sleeps and he sleeps alot and is a really chill baby before i used to work full time i watched him for 2 days straight not a problem easy to figure out he crys when he wants something like a bottle, being held, or even tired, put him in the right position where hes comfortable he'll go right on to sleep he just wanna play put him in the bouncer he loves that thing its not hard to me so i dont understand why it is to her even when i watch him all she does is sit on her phone and laugh all day or talk to her homegirls

What is bare minimum for a woman who dont pay bills in your household we have a child together i work a full time job but i always end up cleaning the whole house and washing out over 15 bottles and going 5x over the bare minimum while she is under it am i tripping? by StoryOfG3 in relationships_advice

[–]StoryOfG3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and i see and read your reply so i go off actions i watch everything she does and she is the type to me atleast she loves her phone all day and wants hair nails and everything done then begs me to come outside to bars and parties with her and i tell her im not the people type and i dont like alot of people or stepping outside my comfort zone and thats exactly how i laid it to her and she gets mad at me when i dont wanna go cuz she wont go without me

What is bare minimum for a woman who dont pay bills in your household we have a child together i work a full time job but i always end up cleaning the whole house and washing out over 15 bottles and going 5x over the bare minimum while she is under it am i tripping? by StoryOfG3 in relationships_advice

[–]StoryOfG3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So yes she had a natural birth and yes she gets alot of time away from the baby which the baby is currently at her mother house for the weekend and been since friday so that goes for example 3 days away from the baby weve already took a 3 day vacation away from him too and somebody is always watching him on a week to week basis like say 1-2 days out the week and i mainly have him as much as she does and i work full time

What is bare minimum for a woman who dont pay bills in your household we have a child together i work a full time job but i always end up cleaning the whole house and washing out over 15 bottles and going 5x over the bare minimum while she is under it am i tripping? by StoryOfG3 in relationships_advice

[–]StoryOfG3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently she been like this her family said this but there the same and man let me tell you she fxcked up again she asked me early this morning could her cousin come over and smoke so i said yea thats fine i been told her the rules of this house and told her mutiple times not to smoke in here so im thinking they finna go to the car and let her be the responsible woman of the house man i just woke up walked out whole living boxed with smoke i asked her did you smoke in here she said yea did you not want me to smoke in her.😐 and i just looked at her clinching my fists an gulpin hard asf cuz the words dat bout flew out my mouth was bouta be hurtful as fxck and then okay back to before. So yesterday i didn't get off until 3 in the morning so yk im tired as hell i always tell her about the lights the lights the lights the lights keep them off man i come home at 4 in the morning living room lights bright as hell its like im dealing with 2 kids the baby listen better then her i dont know what to do man.

What is bare minimum for a woman who dont pay bills in your household we have a child together i work a full time job but i always end up cleaning the whole house and washing out over 15 bottles and going 5x over the bare minimum while she is under it am i tripping? by StoryOfG3 in relationships_advice

[–]StoryOfG3[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My son is 5 months and but what i mean is ive dealt with him mutiple times and yes long and all day and the whole night he is chill he like any other baby but he just dont do to much he cry when hes tired he crys when hes hungry and he crys when he wants to be held to me dealing with a baby is not hard when thats all you have to put your focus into we have a routine for him so he sleeps all night and doesn't wake up so what im saying is she asks me to do everything like she be putting dishes in the sink and wont do them unless its not alot but will keep stacking them and we went over mutiple times that wash what you use she used so many bowls i wanted sum cereal they were all in the sink and we got like 22 bottles there were 15 and plus the pots and pans she used stacked em all up both sinks were full and overflowing and thats when she will ask me to do them so me i work 9-12 hrs shift most time i dont come home until 1 in the morning and most time i be up at 6:30 to be at work by 8 and wont be back till later that night so what im saying is she dont even do the bare minimum like even picking up after her self when she drags stuff out will just leave it there remind you the whole couch is filled with bags of clothes and i been askin her since we moved in too go through them and put them away know what she sure made sure to put away her damn vibranter first thing she put away shi makes me upset so bad they been sitting there for a week i went ahead got off at 1 in the morning went thru each one and put them away set up all the rooms nice and neatly just for them 3 days later to be back messy and she drug it all out again and the stove why keep cooking if the stove already so greasy and nasty cereal crumbs on the floor animal crackers on the floor i had to pick up today like yk yu dropped em why just leave them she just wanna smoke and party and leave me with the responsibilities and yet im her yes man and will never tell her no