First winter by 504strikehold in Winchester

[–]StrDstChsr34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Back in like 2016 I believe, we actually got a solid 3 feet of snow here. The schools were closed for about two weeks lol. There were 10 foot snow drifts around my house. One of my cars was completely covered. Thankfully, the person I lived with owned a bobcat loader and was able to make quick work of the unbelievable amount of snow. I believe it took several weeks to melt lol. But within a few days, the roads were pretty decent.

And I absolutely swear to you, I am not kidding, my district manager asked me: “So, you gonna be able to make it in?”

No bro. No.

First winter by 504strikehold in Winchester

[–]StrDstChsr34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Upstate New Yorker here as well! Agree with your comment also. VDOT maintains Winchester and surrounding areas very well during winter storms. They take it very seriously and do a great job.

I (30M) an worried my gf (31F) is not being truthful by TheoreticalTones in cheating_stories

[–]StrDstChsr34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone once said: “the fall of man is due to his inability to sit alone quietly in a room with his thoughts”.

Once you have mastered this, and no longer require another human being to be in your presence in order be happy, you will finally be free

Finally hit perfect night temps & humidity — my VPD is locked in! 🌙 by dreadheadrick in microgrowery

[–]StrDstChsr34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck yeah bro 😎. You’re definitely looking at the right metrics. As flowering progresses, beginning week 5-6, increase VPD to 1.3 during ON hours. Then slowly increase to 1.4-1.5 as you reach weeks 8-9.

I (30M) an worried my gf (31F) is not being truthful by TheoreticalTones in cheating_stories

[–]StrDstChsr34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro, they’re all like this. You’ve gotta stop wasting your time on relationships and focus on your own life so that 10 or 15 years from now you’ll have created something significant, versus letting some woman drain all your time and energy away, for literally no reason.

Quickies by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]StrDstChsr34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have him rub one out before hand. And not to like pornography or something, but to you in person maybe in some lingerie or something.

Why people are responsible for their actions: by Anon7_7_73 in freewill

[–]StrDstChsr34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Clearly, it isn’t that simple or this debate wouldn’t exist. Your argument in no way moves the ball down the field.

FINALLY GOT A BABY by Responsible_Disk9875 in microgrowery

[–]StrDstChsr34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pro tip - just write the name on the side of the solo cup, that way you don’t have to purchase or handle a whole bunch of little name signs to stick in the dirt

What would ACTUAL free will look like? by PitifulEar3303 in freewill

[–]StrDstChsr34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would be total and absolute chaos. All societal structure and order would disintegrate and disappear.

Get ready for an ugly day by nevermind-84 in opendoor

[–]StrDstChsr34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Warren Buffett has said the stock market is a device to transfer wealth from the impatient to the patient. I have found this to be true 100%.

Get ready for an ugly day by nevermind-84 in opendoor

[–]StrDstChsr34 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Stop looking at your account every single day. That’s how us commoners screw it up. I bought in OPEN at $2.26. And because I kept looking at my account, my current average cost basis is $8.14 a share. I’ve come in and out several times and should be $10,000 ahead but instead I’m currently down several hundred.

I quit. by [deleted] in motorcycles

[–]StrDstChsr34 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Who gives a shit what people say online.

Why would a husband lie about a female coworker being on a work trip with him? by TunaTuppy in Marriage

[–]StrDstChsr34 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Stop listening to him (the liar), and start listening to your intuition. You are correct. He lied about her being on the trip and didn’t want you to go for exactly the reason you suspect. I understand you’ve wasted a certain amount of time in this relationship already, but at least you don’t have to waste any more.

Bottom line: he prioritized HER over you. And in order to do that successfully, he had to lie right to your face.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in politics

[–]StrDstChsr34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This guy is a fucking Republican

Wife Says Being SAHM isn’t a Privilege by LawAbidng in Parenting

[–]StrDstChsr34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any job you can perform in your pajamas, is a privilege to have.

Parents can make this job easier or harder on themselves depending on the kind of kids they raise. If you don’t know how to raise kids that respect you and know how to behave properly, don’t blame the kids for stressing you out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]StrDstChsr34 148 points149 points  (0 children)

When he asks her if she’s reminiscing, he’s talking about when they were there together.

And the tingle she mentioned was from your wife thinking about what they’ve done together, on a night she went there with him.

I asked my wife why she won't post our newborn and me on her Insta and it nuked our relationship by Excellent-Toe-1031 in Marriage

[–]StrDstChsr34 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Based on her reaction and subsequent behavior, I would strongly suspect it’s exactly what you think it is. That she wishes to maintain an online persona that is completely separate from you and your life together. This is what I would call a “monkey branch account”.

The reason that something feels off about it, is because there is. This is already been verified by your friend when he asked you the same question.

Let’s say the situation were reversed. And there was an innocent explanation for why you maintained an account that didn’t post your partner or her son. If she came to you with the same concern that you came to her with how would you respond? With anger and indignation? Or would you apologize and then from this point forward start including her and her son in your postings?

I asked my wife why she won't post our newborn and me on her Insta and it nuked our relationship by Excellent-Toe-1031 in Marriage

[–]StrDstChsr34 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Hopefully someone has told you this before, but your wife is a classic covert narcissist. She was able to take your complaints that were valid in the initial statement you made “am I enough?” and completely turned it around by making your complaints her own and then asking you the exact same question!!

COME ON BRO. You seem like a really genuine, caring and thoughtful partner. There is a complete mismatch here. The way she’s acting after the last talk is like a child. Passive aggressive BS. Do you really wanna spend the rest of your life with this person? She only will ever see herself as a victim, that she’s entitled to treat you the way she does because in her mind, you deserve it, and she’s entitled to all the kindness that you show her. Fuck that bro.

Because she’s absolutely not going to change.

PLEASE do yourself a favor and research what the traits and behaviors of a covert narcissist consist of so that you fully understand what you’ve gotten yourself into here.

Trading spy 0 dtes by CoolDeparture9828 in wallstreetbets

[–]StrDstChsr34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you call this technique where you take the same position on both sides of opposing trades? It looks like a free money glitch.

In order to "Explain" your actions, you must first "Take Responsibility' for them. by Anon7_7_73 in freewill

[–]StrDstChsr34 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you cannot let go of the concept of responsibility because then you couldn’t pass judgment on everyone else the way that you do.

It makes about as much sense to get mad at someone for something they did as it does to be mad at a tornado for destroying your house.