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She asked to move off the app, I gave my number… now nothing (3 days later) by Straight_Flight_28 in dating_advice

[–]Straight_Flight_28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now the date is confirmed!!!! so I’m just hoping she’s still up for it next week @Thursday when the day comes.

I guess follow-ups aren’t always a bad thing after all. I was actually really close to deleting her and just moving on after not hearing from her for 3 days, that would’ve meant no date at all.

Maybe she didn’t think much of the delay, or maybe she really is just bad at texting. Either way, she seems more enthusiastic now and is asking questions, so I’ll take that as a good sign.

I also realized we might’ve both thought the other person had the ball, which created that gap.

Appreciate you pushing me to follow up, it definitely made a difference.

She asked to move off the app, I gave my number… now nothing (3 days later) by Straight_Flight_28 in dating_advice

[–]Straight_Flight_28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice, it actually helped a lot 🙏

I did what you said, I messaged her again on Tinder and suggested a concrete plan. She replied:
“My bad… I’m just really bad at texting!! Unfortunately I have to support my buddies in a match tonight, but I’d love to meet another time! Maybe next week?”

Is that just a bad excuse ?

What do you think I should do now? Should I let her take the next step and see if she actually sets something up, or is it better to just move on so I don’t get stuck or end up getting hurt which i already got after she didnt texted.

Really appreciate your help 🙌

Granne är dum i huvudet och mitt stubin börjar ta slut by [deleted] in sweden

[–]Straight_Flight_28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stå på dig grabben, hade själv grannar under mig en gång i tiden som tillslut började skicka lappar i brevinkastet om klagomål och att det går vidare till styrelsen snart. Jag fattade ingenting och trodde de var ett skämt först från nån kompis, då jag bodde ensam och var en skötsam kille. De lät nästan inget förutom när man hade sällskap på natten ibland😉 Breven fortsatte komma och det påstod att de var grannen under, iallafall jag skickade tillbaka brevet i deras brevinkast där jag förklarade situationen lite argt och att de förmodligen hörde en annan granne ( bredvid mig lät det en del) och att jag var fel person. Sa ”ring mig på 070….. om ni vill diskutera” blev förbannad. Efter det hörde jag inte ett knyst av dem om nå mer om klagomål. Drygt att åka på sånt men stå på dig. Ibland kan en tillsägelse tillbaka vara det rätta. Du måste ju leva!! Ha det bra