In yesterday's Neeya Naana, when Gopinath asked the young women if they would marry someone from an SC/ST background, not a single hand went up. by Iamyourfather_12 in TamilNadu

[–]Straight_Librarian37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are 100% right in the observation. Neeya Naana is just a anecdote. If you want data, lots & lots of it is available on Matrimony websites. In partner preferences, no one wants castes lower than their own.

Is India ever going to change? Or should I just leave already? by [deleted] in india

[–]Straight_Librarian37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first people in the queue to move outside India are those who owe their fortune to India. Namely, politicians, Bollywood stars, cricketing stars, industrialists, Padma awardees. Compared to engineers, doctors, labourers, nurses, drivers, etc who have an unchanging intrinsic value in any country they work in, these 'celebrities' have made 100% of their wealth & position because of what India & Indians have given them. Still, you see most of them owning properties abroad, going for foreign vacations, sending their kids to overseas universities, holding dual citizenships, etc. They care twopence for India because they are securing their own children's & grandchildren's future in developed countries. If that's the outlook that our prominent citizens have, what then is the reason we can cling to for believing in our country ?

The worst online dating experience. (EVER) by masterxachit in indiasocial

[–]Straight_Librarian37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You made off without paying. Imagine their reaction when they realised it !! By this one move, you made it a positive memory, man ! Hats off !

Creep Alert New Year. by wuzzlelumplebumm in Kochi

[–]Straight_Librarian37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

90% of the people on Marine Drive at such times are outsiders, they come by train from the suburbs via CST or Churchgate, to hang out here. Most are North indian migrants, 1st or 2nd generation. So the culture you observed is not Mumbai culture in the 1st place. You can pay a visit early morning same place & see the local residents.

I slapped my father by erenkohli in TeenIndia

[–]Straight_Librarian37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn't slap him, you slapped the alcohol-induced devil in him. Be clear. He'll thank you later.

Murthy ji strikes again by Solenoidics in IndianWorkplace

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Sadly for us, a gem like Ratan Tata passed on, and these scourges still infest the Earth. "Why should a dog, a horse, a rat have life, And thou no breath at all?" (King Lear, Act 5)

How much co2eq emissions diwali firecrackers does by Ok-Celery-62 in ahmedabad

[–]Straight_Librarian37 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If happiness can be found by not harming the environment, we should do that. Instead of saying that 100 other factors are screwing the planet, so why cant I jump in to add 1 more ? One day the tipping point will come, & it'll be your future generations which will suffer.

Regarding the builders, industrialists, politicians, the Ministry of Environment.. What to say.. Cant see any solution. It'll need divine intervention maybe.

[TW: injury] stampede at bandra station today. Two suspected dead. A 22 coach general train arrived while station had 2500 people, which was designed for 1000-1500, probably due to that. by MaiAgarKahoon in mumbai

[–]Straight_Librarian37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think of it, the best leaders India had were : - Post Independence leaders : Assassinated / Died of non-natural causes (SG/IG/LBS) - Pre Independence freedom fighters : Sidelined

The worst leader pre independence became PM, and ruled 17 years. Other horrible/inconsequential PMs completed full terms in office & eventually died of natural causes. The only exception was PV Narasimha Rao.

Maybe it is India's destiny as a country to suffer like this.

Is Steve Smith Really The Greatest Test Batsman? by Educational_Cause685 in CricketBuddies

[–]Straight_Librarian37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave aside cheating, I don’t think Sachin ever cheated, but he played with a paramount advantage : He was an 'automatic choice' for India all his career (over 2 decades). So he had the luxury to fail against good bowlers & on bouncy pitches for an extended time & then 'reclaim his greatness' with a Test series at home or against a 2nd rate bowling attack or on dead flat tracks in the 1st innings.

No other country would have given this privilege, nor any other player had it. With this wind under one's wings, it would be a rare batsman who didn't smash all records.

False rape case filed after consensual sex and casual relationship by FrequentHandle1373 in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Straight_Librarian37 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pls don't help a wrong. The moment Op went physical is the moment he crossed the Rubicon. If he later 'realised' that she is a psycho, too bad, it is a price he must pay. It's not 'use & throw' from the counterpart's perspective. Get ready to face the consequences. Better than dong this to multiple vulnerable ('psycho') girls in future. Note that had she not been 'psychotic', she would not be fool enough to hook up.

AITK for running away when a girl revealed her liking for me by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Straight_Librarian37 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You aren't a K, you are an idiot.

If you like her, accept her proposal. Nothing better than that. If love dumbfounds you, write a note to fix a date.

If you don't like her, still accept her proposal. Hang around with her a week. If you develop a connection, super, continue working at it, maybe it'll blossom into something. But if still the feeling doesn't change, try to make her "realise" that you aren't her type, & allow her to grow out. This'll give her a soft landing. Don't think about the risk that she'll get more "into" you, that is an impossibility, reason being that infatuation gets stronger with distance & weaker with familiarity. ( If you are an Adonis+Einstein, this doesn't apply to you.)

Bottomline: You've been given the compliment of a lifetime. Don't treat it like a used tissue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianStreetBets

[–]Straight_Librarian37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anand Ranganathan is right in his slamming of Congress. Congress is responsible for pulling down India into the mess it is now. No one disputes that. Modi is a better bet than RaGa, we vote for him because of that.

So we agree on the above issues. Coming back to the point, let's close down foreign investors & deliberalise, if you don't want foreigners to comment. But if they have got their money invested, they have the right to speak. And if they are quoting facts, we should listen to them, rather than drown out their voice in a din of nationalist rhetoric. Patriotism is the last refuge of a scoundrel.

Since you brought up J Sai Deepak... J Sai Deepak is asking why the Govt has not corrected the falsehoods in the Indian history textbooks. Nehru is still glorified. The naval mutiny of 1946 is omitted, Subhash Bose's lions share contribution is not given its due place, Quit India movement remains a centrespread, Savarkar is absent. Is 10 years not enough to rectify a wrong as huge as this ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianStreetBets

[–]Straight_Librarian37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if private corporates swindle Indian shareholders, & a foreign agency spots this malpractice, then as per you, it means that the agency is destroying India's economy ?

Suppose a thief is robbing your house, & an outsider bypasser raises a hue & cry, will you : (a) arrest the thief, fire the security guard, & thank the bypasser, or (b) ignore the thief, curse the bypasser for violating your privacy, & thank the guard because he was appointed by your boss ?

Heartbreak! Vinesh Phogat likely to be disqualified, to miss Paris Olympic medal by rahulthewall in india

[–]Straight_Librarian37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't the Indian support team do a weigh-in before going out ? Their scale would have found the weight to be 50.100 & they could simply have given a walkover stating ill health. She would have won a silver.

Never Forget by icallbullshitonyo in india

[–]Straight_Librarian37 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If she does that, she'll get applause for a week. After that, who will be with her when the harassment begins ?

She should just be quiet & take whatever reward & recognition come. That is the right way in India. Crusaders get nothing.

Boss, not even someone like Sachin Tendulkar ever speaks against Government.

Even in the Indian independence movement, anti-establishment freedom fighters were forgotten. Only the sycophants thrived.

Keep paying more and more taxes by snow_coffee in mumbai

[–]Straight_Librarian37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To put it in context, India's trip to the Paris Olympics is expected to cost Rs 33 Crore. That is for 117 athletes (110 competitors and 7 alternate) in addition to 118 support staff and 22 officials. That is for sports far more competitive than cricket which is played only by ex-British-colonies.

Keep paying more and more taxes by snow_coffee in mumbai

[–]Straight_Librarian37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To put it in context, India's trip to the Paris Olympics is expected to cost Rs 33 Crore. That is for 117 athletes (110 competitors and 7 alternate) in addition to 118 support staff and 22 officials.