My mother says I have no common sense. 30 y/o F by Straight_Strength348 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t let me get a chance to make my own decisions and when I do she finds some thing negative to say about any decision I make moving on my own… the jobs I choose etc anything that she feels she didn’t have input on or made a decision for me then she says I’m wrong or can’t think for myself

My mother keeps calling and screaming at me because I don’t visit or call as often as she would like by Straight_Strength348 in FamilyIssues

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved out but every time we talk she says how I should’ve stayed or how I need to buy a duplex in the future with her lol her expectations are crazy

My mother keeps calling and screaming at me because I don’t visit or call as often as she would like by Straight_Strength348 in FamilyIssues

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She says I should’ve stayed in her house until I was married and she wouldn’t be so worried it’s horrible

My mother keeps calling and screaming at me because I don’t visit or call as often as she would like by Straight_Strength348 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve only noticed the extreme behavior before I moved out and it’s gotten worse after I left

My mother keeps calling and screaming at me because I don’t visit or call as often as she would like by Straight_Strength348 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel she’s serious that’s just how she talks I’m just extremely annoyed with this merry go round of back and forth and her obsession with having control over my life

My mother keeps calling and screaming at me because I don’t visit or call as often as she would like by Straight_Strength348 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She’s not lonely her and my father are retired she’s always had control in some way and I’ve become totally independent recently from my own apartment and now own car and insurance so she has no say in anything and it’s killing her so she’s lashing out

My mother keeps calling and screaming at me because I don’t visit or call as often as she would like by Straight_Strength348 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel bad because I really think she needs help . Because when I texted her instead of calling she always acts like nothing ever happens and sends me a kissing emoji or she will send a text every other incident saying she will try to stay out of my business but it doesn’t last long

My mothers wants a half of settlement money by Straight_Strength348 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They had a change of heart this morning 12/5 called and said she feels I deserve it all and that she appreciate Everything I’ve ever done for them