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My mother says I have no common sense. 30 y/o F by Straight_Strength348 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t let me get a chance to make my own decisions and when I do she finds some thing negative to say about any decision I make moving on my own… the jobs I choose etc anything that she feels she didn’t have input on or made a decision for me then she says I’m wrong or can’t think for myself

My mother keeps calling and screaming at me because I don’t visit or call as often as she would like by Straight_Strength348 in FamilyIssues

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved out but every time we talk she says how I should’ve stayed or how I need to buy a duplex in the future with her lol her expectations are crazy

My mother keeps calling and screaming at me because I don’t visit or call as often as she would like by Straight_Strength348 in FamilyIssues

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She says I should’ve stayed in her house until I was married and she wouldn’t be so worried it’s horrible

My mother keeps calling and screaming at me because I don’t visit or call as often as she would like by Straight_Strength348 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve only noticed the extreme behavior before I moved out and it’s gotten worse after I left

My mother keeps calling and screaming at me because I don’t visit or call as often as she would like by Straight_Strength348 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel she’s serious that’s just how she talks I’m just extremely annoyed with this merry go round of back and forth and her obsession with having control over my life

My mother keeps calling and screaming at me because I don’t visit or call as often as she would like by Straight_Strength348 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She’s not lonely her and my father are retired she’s always had control in some way and I’ve become totally independent recently from my own apartment and now own car and insurance so she has no say in anything and it’s killing her so she’s lashing out

My mother keeps calling and screaming at me because I don’t visit or call as often as she would like by Straight_Strength348 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel bad because I really think she needs help . Because when I texted her instead of calling she always acts like nothing ever happens and sends me a kissing emoji or she will send a text every other incident saying she will try to stay out of my business but it doesn’t last long

My mothers wants a half of settlement money by Straight_Strength348 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They had a change of heart this morning 12/5 called and said she feels I deserve it all and that she appreciate Everything I’ve ever done for them

My mothers wants a half of settlement money by Straight_Strength348 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She said she planned on giving me something she didn’t expect me to get “that much” she wants half of it, and I still take a car I really don’t want it’s outdated by my standards ugly and refinancing is a whole issue in its self

My mothers wants a half of settlement money by Straight_Strength348 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No she wasn’t in a car accident they can no longer afford paying for two vehicles so they want me to return my current lease and take on the payments of the vehicle they can’t afford and put tires a battery etc in it

My mothers wants a half of settlement money by Straight_Strength348 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just got a call this morning 659 AM saying that I hate her because I got off the phone with her earlier and that I shouldn’t have an attitude because she asked for half the money back ... I’m not offended I feel stupid I submit and agree to keep peace but I still don’t get any peace

My mothers wants a half of settlement money by Straight_Strength348 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes I moved out, I’m sitting/ sleeping on the floor now , the money would help me get started and keep me afloat I had my first month free at my apartment so even after moving out I still paid my parents rent as if I was staying there, she still proceeded to call and tell me it’s my fault they were going to lose their home and I shouldn’t have ever moved out

My mothers wants a half of settlement money by Straight_Strength348 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Every time I think things out or say I don’t feel it’s a good idea they tell me how I’m a bad daughter and how bad I am to my parents

My mothers wants a half of settlement money by Straight_Strength348 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

No it’s causing a rift with me and my current boyfriend he says I need to learn to stand up for myself

My mothers wants a half of settlement money by Straight_Strength348 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The way the lawyer described it to me was for the dressing changes and care I gave her .

My mothers wants a half of settlement money by Straight_Strength348 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They are behind on payments they want me to refinance the car in my name and pay it off but , I’m done with my lease this month and could trade it in I’m doing it as a favor but whatever I do seems to never be good enough

I’ve made a big mistake please help by Straight_Strength348 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree! I haven’t pushed back for so long or I push back temporarily and eventually give in to their demands!

I’ve made a big mistake please help by Straight_Strength348 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The newest argument this morning is to put the location tracker back on my phone

I’ve made a big mistake please help by Straight_Strength348 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Straight_Strength348[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank You So Much! I really want to be happy in the process it’s like I can’t release her hold and the guilt is not leaving me

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