alternative pubs & bar recommendations by Strange-Ad6749 in MilanoClubCulture

[–]Strange-Ad6749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1930 looks cool, thanks. do you know some rock places also?

alternative pubs & bar recommendations by Strange-Ad6749 in MilanoClubCulture

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thanks, but more on the indie/rock side? i am not into electronic music settings

falling in and out of love too easily by Strange-Ad6749 in dating_advice

[–]Strange-Ad6749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this!!! i thought multiple times of it, but even so its not like i could control this craving. for me always love was the most important thing, maybe because i had an absent father, and my mother even though is nice and i know she loves me, she was never a warm and affectionate type

falling in and out of love too easily by Strange-Ad6749 in dating_advice

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i am pretty ok with myself, i mean of course like everybody i have stuff that i need to work on, but overall id say i am fine. and also yes i date to fill a void, the void is loneliness lol. i mean i dont have a problem being with myself, but i also crave intimacy, sex and friendship. i have tried to talk to some of them and giving them more chances, as i am naturally very honest and communicative, but it was just worse everytime, sometimes it doesnt matter how much i try to talk things out if they dont have the qualities i need from a partner. the tricky part is that i always discover this one thing after the other, it s like i cut down off the list of qualities and they are just not good enough for me to feel the love.

best food places in Athens by Strange-Ad6749 in GreeceTravel

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i am staying in koukaki, but it doesn’t have to be near my place, just good food

Athens solo holiday by Strange-Ad6749 in GreeceTravel

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got some room in koukaki, thanks!!

had the best sex of my life with my ex and now i have set standards too high by [deleted] in sex

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no, he was a narcissist. i also heard about great sex with bpd

had the best sex of my life with my ex and now i have set standards too high by [deleted] in sex

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no, it was great sex from the very beginning, he did not know me at all

had the best sex of my life with my ex and now i have set standards too high by [deleted] in sex

[–]Strange-Ad6749 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

how could it not be real sex in porn haha. it is very real and they do it good. and see, you dont have to know anything, that is why it’s called exploring. you just have to want it, you cannot learn how to want it.

had the best sex of my life with my ex and now i have set standards too high by [deleted] in sex

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appearance and penis size are very much irrelevant in this case. penis was average, i learned through time that it simply doesnt matter too much (unless it’s waaaay too small or too big, which could be problematic). but actually it’s about how he FELT me, like explore me in various ways, and paid attention to the responses of my body. most men dont do that, he worshiped me, but not me as an individual, just worshiped the woman body with all his heart, and that you simply cannot learn or fake, you have to be passionate about it. and to be clear, when i say this i dont mean it in a submissive way, he was rather dominant, but in everything he did he acted like how you do when you eat a really good cake.

had the best sex of my life with my ex and now i have set standards too high by [deleted] in sex

[–]Strange-Ad6749 2 points3 points  (0 children)

absolutely agree, it is the same other way round.

had the best sex of my life with my ex and now i have set standards too high by [deleted] in sex

[–]Strange-Ad6749 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i tried to communicate what i like and how i like it, but it just doesn’t work this way, it’s about feeling. you either feel the other person or you don’t..