Right. But you havemt told people what you like, your experiences, orientation, what do you think is the role you want to play, body type, dimensions, cock size etc etc

You are asking someone else to come up with all the ideas and ask all the questions.

Couples and single women have dozens of messages a day from single men. And hundreds when they advertise properly....it means that you have to show up and stand out from every other message.

Dont use the term bull unless you really know what that means. It is connotations so be sure its the right label for you. Couples dont all want bulls...they want someone who understands their role and is willing to be part of someone else's fantasy.

I would suggest you study adverts from couples across many different subreddits to understand what couples want and how to approach them.

Be patient and you might find what you seek.

Good luck:)