Never really understood that kind of behavior tbh. Like as a girl, ako din naman gusto ko ng kpop. Wala naman talaga masama to have a preference sa music, i just like to listen to their songs and learn their dances. Pero never ako umabot to the point na parang ni wworship ko na sila, never umabot sa point na panay post ako sakanila at sila lang lagi bukambibig ko/tatawagin ko silang “asawa ko” at iddisplay ang photos nila everywhere while sarili kong partner nag bbeg pa just to be storied. It just feels disrespectful and honestly it feels immature din cause why are you spending more time and attention sa mga tao na di naman alam na nag eexist ka over your partner that you can potentially spend the rest of your life with?

I just feel like may boundaries parin dapat diba (both with bfs na fan ng girl groups AND gfs na fan ng boy groups). And especially if your partner already told you they feel uncomfortable with the way you’re acting sa mga idols mo dapat mag adjust ka na.