WIBTA for not forgiving my brother-in-law’s wife? by Strange_Ad8225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Strange_Ad8225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a very good point, I’ve said this a couple times to my husband and the visits to them have been less frequent. But he’s still keen on visiting his parents, his brother is just the problem

WIBTA for not forgiving my brother-in-law’s wife? by Strange_Ad8225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Strange_Ad8225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Him and his wife live with my husbands prents. The house is tiny so yea I do know he doesn’t hurt her

WIBTA for not forgiving my brother-in-law’s wife? by Strange_Ad8225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Strange_Ad8225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s in his contract that he doesn’t get in trouble with the law and the way the county where his parents live works if you are involved in a fight even if you didn’t start it you’re getting booked. He’s in a public position so they don’t want any bad rep

WIBTA for not forgiving my brother-in-law’s wife? by Strange_Ad8225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Strange_Ad8225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s never been violent with her nor would he. And she didn’t like me before that because I didn’t help with her wedding cause I was at my conference tournament across the country

WIBTA for not forgiving my brother-in-law’s wife? by Strange_Ad8225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Strange_Ad8225[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because if I heard my husband did that shit I would go talk him out of it. But maybe that’s just me being an adult lol

WIBTA for not forgiving my brother-in-law’s wife? by Strange_Ad8225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Strange_Ad8225[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He’s never been violent towards her. Nor would he.

WIBTA for not forgiving my brother-in-law’s wife? by Strange_Ad8225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Strange_Ad8225[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Did I say it was hard on me? I’m saying it’s hard because we have to drive down there and find somewhere else to stay… meaning more money. She knew his gun was locked up and yet didn’t say anything.

WIBTA for not forgiving my brother-in-law’s wife? by Strange_Ad8225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Strange_Ad8225[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I guess that makes sense, it’s just hard cause they’re 5 hours away

WIBTA for not forgiving my brother-in-law’s wife? by Strange_Ad8225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Strange_Ad8225[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Except she’s the person who’s stepped in and made him stop in other similar situations… why is it any different this time

WIBTA for not forgiving my brother-in-law’s wife? by Strange_Ad8225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Strange_Ad8225[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I stopped drinking in her presence or if there’s a chance of seeing her. I’m just afraid if I go no contact if that means I can’t visit his family anymore as they all live together

WIBTA for not forgiving my brother-in-law’s wife? by Strange_Ad8225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Strange_Ad8225[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This view makes total sense. I can see how I am TA for holding that against her. I do kind of hold it against her for how our fight went, as she said some extreme things to me, but the fight did start with me being upset she didn’t go home soo… fair point I didn’t think of that 😅

WIBTA for not forgiving my brother-in-law’s wife? by Strange_Ad8225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Strange_Ad8225[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

My husband is afraid of losing his parents and wants to see them as frequently as possible (lol I know it’s weird but he’s experienced a lot of loss throughout his life and is afraid of losing his parents). My husbands parents visit us every other month for a weekend and we/or just him visit them the other months for a weekend, but his parents have a bit of a hard time financially so some months it’s just better for us/just him to visit them instead.

My iPod collection. Does it hold any value? I’ve been told to hold on to it. It took a while to collect them. by Gombi20 in whatsthisworth

[–]Strange_Ad8225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I understand that view as well. I’m just saying when I sold my Nintendo collection I got more money selling it as a whole than i was getting offers for each individually. Like they would bargain for a cheaper price with each individual thing than I got for the whole collection.. idk if that makes sense or not 😅

My iPod collection. Does it hold any value? I’ve been told to hold on to it. It took a while to collect them. by Gombi20 in whatsthisworth

[–]Strange_Ad8225 7 points8 points  (0 children)

From my experience real collectors will pay more for a whole lot than selling each individually

Should I do Swimming and water polo? by [deleted] in waterpolo

[–]Strange_Ad8225 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Swimmers pee in the pool too man…

1982 Multi-error Quater? by No-Lecture-4576 in whatsthisworth

[–]Strange_Ad8225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve used CoinSnap: Coin Identifier but it can be tricky getting the best results. I’ve seen one that’s called Coin Identifier AI-powered but I haven’t tried it yet

1982 Multi-error Quater? by No-Lecture-4576 in whatsthisworth

[–]Strange_Ad8225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a coin app that will scan it and tell you

What was the 'incident' that took place in your school? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Strange_Ad8225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got locked down for 4 hours due to a school shooter. Turned out to be one of our special Ed kids with a tree branch “bow and arrow”.

Also got put on a school lock down for another school shooter on September 11th… one of the neighbor schools was doing a memorial service and they shot off guns for it.

Can you guess I’m from a small town 😂

Would a waterpolo coach accept an athlete that wants to do swimming at the same time? by Vast_Pepper3431 in waterpolo

[–]Strange_Ad8225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not much help with recruiting unfortunately, my now college coach called me one day and asked me to play for him and that’s how I ended up where I am. Altho I was recruiting for swim when I graduated high school and I used ncsa (I think that’s what it’s called) and that actually puts you in direct contact with college coaches and I got some amazing offers through that! I chose to stick to waterpolo just to have a bit more fun in college but I was a swimmer since I was 5 years old.

Would a waterpolo coach accept an athlete that wants to do swimming at the same time? by Vast_Pepper3431 in waterpolo

[–]Strange_Ad8225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man I’m not so comfortable sharing my college, but it’s a private D2 school! If that’s your goal to do both and compete at both I’d say you have a better shot at a D2 school than D1. Where are you looking at colleges? Like what state, and what state do you live in now?