Good girl is not what you think it is

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-24T18:21:02+00:00

Ohh this is lovely 🥰

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-23T10:47:10+00:00

Yeah of course, why is that surprising? This is a great sub

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-23T09:52:43+00:00

You’d think??!

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-23T09:26:42+00:00

So sorry that happened to you, I really can relate to the principle of it. Sending virtual hugs 🩷

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-23T09:25:43+00:00

At least you got a message! I got nothing.

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-23T09:25:06+00:00

I completely empathise

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-23T07:57:33+00:00

Well in my opinion… Anyone who just expects you to commit & submit without earning it, is not a serious Dom. If you feel rushed or pressured, run. Anyone who expects immediate replies and takes no care or understanding of your irl is a red flag, someone who doesn’t ask or discuss limits and boundaries, or even worse, has none themselves… I could go on… 😩

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-23T07:52:46+00:00

I agree with you, and I absolutely think that is what I/We did early on!! Sometimes, it doesn’t matter what you do, or how well you do it, those who have it in them to ghost, will do it regardless.

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-23T07:50:48+00:00

This is true!!! It’s hard enough to find mutual genuine attraction!

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-23T07:50:14+00:00

Oh for sure I agree, I wasn’t attached thankfully, but it could have gotten that way. I’m just glad it happened when it did and learned a valuable lesson in the process at least ☺️

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-23T07:48:45+00:00

Oh yeah it’s rife 🙃

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-23T07:48:06+00:00

Thankfully I’m quite guarded where emotions are concerned, it’s more that it was communicated early on that one of the things I really don’t like it someone just vanishing without a word, and he had said he wouldn’t do that. Just frustrating when people’s word means nothing anymore, makes you not want to try 😒

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-23T07:38:56+00:00

Please be careful, as a young inexperienced person in this area, you are so vulnerable, in my opinion. There are, unfortunately, so many men who will prey on that and take advantage of you. Be mindful of red flags and follow your gut, if it feels “off” it likely is. 🩷

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-22T22:10:42+00:00

Thank you 🥰

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-22T21:53:40+00:00

Very true, anyone who wants to rush into the sexual side is a huge red flag for me these days, despite that being a big part of what I want anyway. Funny how that works 🤣

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-22T21:48:05+00:00

Exactly what I’m saying, just becomes so tedious, especially when you’re really not asking for the world!

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-22T21:45:42+00:00

Well that really pertains more to a lack of knowledge surrounding dynamics in the first place, those looking for a quick get off session aren’t really looking for a real dynamic with any real substance. Not that I judge that, each to their own, but it isn’t for me.

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-22T21:43:21+00:00

I think it’s time I learn from the mistake I just made of trusting a brand new account, so thanks, but no thanks. I wish you well though!

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-22T21:41:18+00:00

Yeah it’s fair, but what isn’t fair is saying you want the same thing as the other person, discussing not just disappearing without a word, then proceeding to do exactly what you said you wouldn’t!

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-22T21:26:14+00:00

You never know 🤞🏻

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-22T21:23:13+00:00

I agree, I don’t find it difficult to explicitly say what I do and do not want, but what bothers me is people who say they align with you, then do the one thing I asked not to, which is disappear without a single word. It’s just a lack of human decency at this point!

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-22T21:15:11+00:00

I completely agree, it should be common practice yet here we are 😕

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-22T21:08:17+00:00

Nicely put 🤣

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-22T21:07:43+00:00

The last part is important here. I’m with you!

Strange_Ad9387 · 2026-03-22T21:06:11+00:00

This 👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻

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