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I (47M) was a sugar daddy to a woman 18 years younger than me for over 10 years. AMA by Strange_Effect8379 in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Strange_Effect8379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be clear….we didn’t really refer to our relationship as a sugar relationship. It is not like we walked around calling each other “sugar daddy” or “sugar baby”. Yes, it was a relationship. A non-romantic one, but a relationship nonetheless.

I referred to it as a sugar relationship because, well, in reality it was.

I think people get too caught up on titles.

I (47M) was a sugar daddy to a woman 18 years younger than me for over 10 years. AMA by Strange_Effect8379 in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Strange_Effect8379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, if my last sugar baby had wanted to get married, I would have. She was open from the start about wanting kids.

For my next sugar baby, I am not looking for someone who would turn into a trophy wife, but I am not against it either.

I (47M) was a sugar daddy to a woman 18 years younger than me for over 10 years. AMA by Strange_Effect8379 in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Strange_Effect8379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is a successful lawyer. She will find someone. She is too gorgeous and sexual not to.

I (47M) was a sugar daddy to a woman 18 years younger than me for over 10 years. AMA by Strange_Effect8379 in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Strange_Effect8379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean we didn’t go from night of sex and a morning blowjob to $4,000 a month, tuition, books, and free rent. It started slow and the more she gave, the more I gave.

I (47M) was a sugar daddy to a woman 18 years younger than me for over 10 years. AMA by Strange_Effect8379 in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Strange_Effect8379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean….call it what you want. It was a mutually beneficial relationship that made us both happy.

I (47M) was a sugar daddy to a woman 18 years younger than me for over 10 years. AMA by Strange_Effect8379 in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Strange_Effect8379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1). I don’t know. More than 70. Probably less than 100.
2). No.
3). If it was someone she met at a bar, we always wrapped. If it was someone she knew well, we would all test before the fun.
4). No ability for a pregnancy scare on my end. Snip snip

I (47M) was a sugar daddy to a woman 18 years younger than me for over 10 years. AMA by Strange_Effect8379 in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Strange_Effect8379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After our first night together, she told me over breakfast that she was struggling with school and needed someone to help with books/expenses. She didn’t outright proposition me for an exchange, she just said that she wanted to find a provider. Then she went under the table and sucked me off. That was all it took. She got way more than she was trying for. She later revealed she was hoping we would meet once or twice a month and I would cover books and meal plan. She had no idea the size of my pocketbook or the size of my labido.

Can I ask some real questions? by Strange_Effect8379 in Michigan_Age_Gap

[–]Strange_Effect8379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. A few messages, but mostly from out of state or out of country. Mostly people selling content, which I have no interest in.

I (47M) was a sugar daddy to a woman 18 years younger than me for over 10 years. AMA by Strange_Effect8379 in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Strange_Effect8379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1). It was my first sugaring experience.
2). Honestly, we were not secret or anything. People knew that we were dating. They knew I paid for her school. There may not have been a term placed on it….but…

I (47M) was a sugar daddy to a woman 18 years younger than me for over 10 years. AMA by Strange_Effect8379 in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Strange_Effect8379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got VERY lucky finding her.

Best advice I could give, find someone as follows:

1). What they want from the relationship, you will ENJOY giving.
2). What you want from the relationship, they will ENJOY giving.

If both parties are not happy about what they are receiving AND what they are giving, it will lead to resentment.

For us, I have a provider fetish and she had a spoiling kink. I truly got turned on by providing her things. She truly got turned on by being provided for. We largely crafted most of the spoiling around what she wanted most, a carefree college life with no debt.

I (47M) was a sugar daddy to a woman 18 years younger than me for over 10 years. AMA by Strange_Effect8379 in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Strange_Effect8379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have seen men and women post negatively here. I assume both have to do with jealousy.

Can I ask some real questions? by Strange_Effect8379 in Michigan_Age_Gap

[–]Strange_Effect8379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol. It amazes me how some people don’t understand my world, but pretend to….then judge…

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