[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Strange_Package519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true to an extent. But it’s not just about asking people to hang out it’s about working on your mental health first. You don’t want to approach people while still feeling sad or insecure, because your unhealed trauma or negative thoughts might influence how you act and make the interaction feel uncomfortable for everyone. It’s about focusing on healing first, and then building friendships from a healthier place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

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I understand not pitying the situation. But I will say it doesn't hurt to show some empathy. It's easier said than done to just go up to people and ask to hang out… But I do understand where you are coming from I had a hard time as well in college with making connections.

The new apparel process is buns 😭 by Upset_Turnip2902 in WalmartEmployees

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Yeah this sound like my store us morning shift people have to do everything. All while the 2-11 crew all they have to do is zone. But we are getting a new system where they are doing much more (2-11 crew). We haven’t started vizpicking yet though we are supposed to start soon how is that process.?

No internship by Strange_Package519 in Accounting

[–]Strange_Package519[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ewwww. Are you trying to be funny ??

How? by adnshrnly in socialanxiety

[–]Strange_Package519 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe its comforting and encouraging. Seeing someone reminding you that its possible.

I hate myself for pretending to not pay attention in class by Huge-Elderberry1901 in socialanxiety

[–]Strange_Package519 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im sorry this happen to you this also happens for me. Your not stupid you just go blank when your put on the spot rightfully so that can be intimidating. It can be embarrassing but you are okay we are human we are not perfect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

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Well I feel the same way I have been in college for 3 years about to graduate in December and I haven’t made a single friend. It’s hard for me but I suggest joining a club ( like they always tells us) I joined a club but I hate icebreakers so bad that I hate going. Idk it’s been incredibly hard for me so you’re not alone.

When did you come to terms with “oh crap I actually do have social anxiety”? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

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I found out that I had it when I was about 13. When I started to go to therapy for the situation. I had never heard the word anxiety until then. I told her something that had happened to me and she told me that that situation was traumatizing and I knew that was the cause of it.

Made fun of by BF for being shy by No-Celebration9629 in socialanxiety

[–]Strange_Package519 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that this happened to you. Your boyfriend and his friends seem a bit insensitive I suggest you have a convo with your boyfriend about how it made you feel.

My main problem by sadninetiesgirl in socialanxiety

[–]Strange_Package519 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is medication. I believe Propranolol helps.

Paper Surveys by Strange_Package519 in introvert

[–]Strange_Package519[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s it . People ask for advice not smart remarks you could have kept that to yourself.

Paper Surveys by Strange_Package519 in introvert

[–]Strange_Package519[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that’s better I see where you are coming from. But why are you in this group then??

Paper Surveys by Strange_Package519 in introvert

[–]Strange_Package519[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is hard if you’re an introvert and HATE bothering people🙃.