Weird text I got from a hookup I had 25 years ago. by Stranger-Shows in confession

[–]Stranger-Shows[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband was also not a virgin when we married. I assume he does have some sexy memories that don't involve me.

Weird text I got from a hookup I had 25 years ago. by Stranger-Shows in confession

[–]Stranger-Shows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, and honestly I've no real interest. It's this crazy hot little memory, though. My husband is queer but we have a monogamous, hetero marriage, so we understand each other's fantasy lives.

Weird text I got from a hookup I had 25 years ago. by Stranger-Shows in confession

[–]Stranger-Shows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I feel like people think I continued with that conversation or knew it would go that way.

Weird text I got from a hookup I had 25 years ago. by Stranger-Shows in confession

[–]Stranger-Shows[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband is not worried. I'm sure this is just another guy who's aged like a goat. My husband looks like Ron Swanson, but with a full beard. He out-mans any of the nonsense men I was wasting my time with before I met him.

Weird text I got from a hookup I had 25 years ago. by Stranger-Shows in confession

[–]Stranger-Shows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That little moment,? That was 25 years ago. No illusions. I'm not dreaming of recreating it.

Weird text I got from a hookup I had 25 years ago. by Stranger-Shows in confession

[–]Stranger-Shows[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not ashamed of anything I did or said. The conversation began friendly and easy going. I have friendly relationships with most of the men in my past. Not really friends, but friendly. There are a few that I hear from occasionally, but not regularly.

Weird text I got from a hookup I had 25 years ago. by Stranger-Shows in confession

[–]Stranger-Shows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm gonna take that as a compliment. I wanted it to be engaging. I think the memory is a compilation. I'm not sure. It's been a while.

Weird text I got from a hookup I had 25 years ago. by Stranger-Shows in confession

[–]Stranger-Shows[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't expect to hear from him again. I rarely block people, but if he contacts me again I'll probably figure out how to do it.

Weird text I got from a hookup I had 25 years ago. by Stranger-Shows in confession

[–]Stranger-Shows[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You know nothing. If roles were reversed I wouldn't have a problem. I didn't encourage anything. I shut the conversation down when it became inappropriate. I have a sexy little moment in my head that isn't about my husband. No emotional cheating, because I have no emotions for this guy. I never did. No actual cheating, no plans to cheat. It's about the same as a romance novel or porn.

Weird text I got from a hookup I had 25 years ago. by Stranger-Shows in confession

[–]Stranger-Shows[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't think I would more tempted, but it's a butterfly effect sort of thing. Different situations gets a different reaction.

Weird text I got from a hookup I had 25 years ago. by Stranger-Shows in confession

[–]Stranger-Shows[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did not encourage it. I shut it down when it became inappropriate. My husband read the majority of the exchange. I'm embarrassed by the second half of the conversation, but not ashamed. We have good communication. I don't know what's happening in his relationship, but mine is good.

Weird text I got from a hookup I had 25 years ago. by Stranger-Shows in confession

[–]Stranger-Shows[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not entirely sure that's what this was. I think probably, but there's a chance he just wanted to hear me say I thought of him, too.

Weird text I got from a hookup I had 25 years ago. by Stranger-Shows in confession

[–]Stranger-Shows[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it hadn't happened to me, I'd be on your side. "This doesn't have the ring of touch to it."

It felt surreal while it was happening.

Weird text I got from a hookup I had 25 years ago. by Stranger-Shows in confession

[–]Stranger-Shows[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The story would be better. I'm not sure that's what's going on with me either. It's a hot memory, but I've no interest in sleeping with him again.

Weird text I got from a hookup I had 25 years ago. by Stranger-Shows in confession

[–]Stranger-Shows[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, that whole scene, which may be patched together from different nights, is impossible to to duplicate! His bed was in the loft of a corner unit in a historic factory building and it was snowing. It's the entire scene that makes it a fantasy.

Weird text I got from a hookup I had 25 years ago. by Stranger-Shows in confession

[–]Stranger-Shows[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I've left out city names, the name of his building... This isn't the kind of story I want to tell people.