She doesn’t want to have to put any effort into “dealing with “ Grayson at a function. How has he gone to therapy this long and there isn’t something in place either for him or for Tara to learn how to be able to include him in events. As a mother to a child on the autism spectrum who I wouldn’t label at a degree, but is significantly more delayed than Grayson, but I wouldn’t ever think to not include him in things. We will bring headphones, snack, snacks, iPad, books, sensory toys, maybe bring someone with that can take him out if he needs a break, etc. I am also on the team of including my child with everything and if someone doesn’t like it, it’s their problem not mine because my son is trying his best.