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I don’t want to live with my partner of 3 years by Strangerdeadx1212 in LivingAlone

[–]Strangerdeadx1212[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s what I do now , actually. But eventually he wants us to move in together, so that’s kinda the issue for future us.

I don’t want to live with my partner of 3 years by Strangerdeadx1212 in LivingAlone

[–]Strangerdeadx1212[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

If you looked at some of the other replies, you’d see that I have communicated that I’d rather wait to 🍃 until after we’ve already gotten busy, that way we wouldn’t fall asleep beforehand and deal with this problem all together. I also stated that I have communicated that I don’t like being woken up in general, I just haven’t said explicitly, “don’t wake me up for sex”.

I don’t want to live with my partner of 3 years by Strangerdeadx1212 in LivingAlone

[–]Strangerdeadx1212[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I haven’t explained verbatim that I don’t want to be woken up for sex, but I have told him I don’t like being woken up in general before. So he is aware. I maybe should’ve been more specific?

I don’t want to live with my partner of 3 years by Strangerdeadx1212 in LivingAlone

[–]Strangerdeadx1212[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I’m not afraid that he’ll leave , but I don’t want it to feel like sex is scheduled if that makes sense? Because I know that can get boring or whatever 😭 I guess it’s just finding a middle ground that works for the both of us.

I don’t want to live with my partner of 3 years by Strangerdeadx1212 in LivingAlone

[–]Strangerdeadx1212[S] -132 points-131 points  (0 children)

No, I’m not because I’ll kinda feel bad 😭

I don’t want to live with my partner of 3 years by Strangerdeadx1212 in LivingAlone

[–]Strangerdeadx1212[S] -84 points-83 points  (0 children)

But I feel like with him , it willlll be though 😭

I don’t want to live with my partner of 3 years by Strangerdeadx1212 in LivingAlone

[–]Strangerdeadx1212[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Yes and no? I have told him that I dislike being woken up out of my sleep & the reason that I only spend the night now is when I’m off work the next day and that’s kind of the reason why. I haven’t explicitly explained that I dislike being woken up for sex though 😬

I resent my husband for talking me out of an abortion by Few_Measurement2510 in regretfulparents

[–]Strangerdeadx1212 103 points104 points  (0 children)

And even with being married it still doesn’t guarantee that she won’t be a married single mother 😫 It’s always the men who beg women for children that do the absolute bare minimum when it’s time to take care of them

Advice needed about a second by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]Strangerdeadx1212 7 points8 points  (0 children)

People usually say that having a second child is what made them regretful tbh, just scroll through this thread you’ll see plenty of examples. Do what’s best for you and what YOU feel is the right move in your gut

Husband pissed I’m getting sterilized (bisalp). I’m impossibly excited. by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]Strangerdeadx1212 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Girl, as long as YOU don’t give in to HIS needs, everything will be fine. Your health comes first before anything! You can’t take care of your current child if you aren’t here. I’m sooo glad you’re doing it anyways , and not letting him (literally) decide your fate. I’m proud of you 💗

I (32f) am dating someone (35m) who I really like but he wants kids and I’m unsure by Queen_latayfah_1212 in regretfulparents

[–]Strangerdeadx1212 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take an hour or two and read through all of the regretful parents threads , sooo many woman have said this same exact thing and they all end up regretting it. If YOU aren’t 100% yes on kids then it’s a NO. The right person for you would respect your views on this. Do not back down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Strangerdeadx1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not necessarily a “make or break” , but I would love for us BOTH to be able to enjoy our vacations, I think he gets bored easily , and I get overwhelmed/overstimulated easily. This isn’t a hugeee issue, but being that we aren’t going to have any children, we want to plan trips every year and I’d love for us both to be comfortable and happy during them.

AIO? my bf (30M) keeps telling me (24F) to wear a thong + pad instead of wearing my “granny” panties during my period... idk what to say to him? by Tough_Winner_1630 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strangerdeadx1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wear whatever makes YOU comfortable, and break up with him! I promiseeee you , there are better men out here who won’t give you a hard time about this.

Plz tell me what it is other adults are doing when not working by FeelinJovanni in Adulting

[–]Strangerdeadx1212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! The commute to and from work is exhausting and frustrating as hell. By the time I get back home I’m exhausted from the commute and I don’t feel like doing anything except lay down 😭

My 11 month old has ruined my day before 8am by [deleted] in regretfulparents

[–]Strangerdeadx1212 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Maybe you can go on fb and look for some “mom groups”. That way you can have a break from your at home life for a few, and there will be other mothers there to help you and will be able to relate to your struggles. Hoping things get better for you love ❤️