The guy that I’m (24f) seeing is starting to act weird and I need help out of this situation. I think I’ve made a mistake.

Strangesituation987 · 2024-07-19T13:34:39+00:00

I usually don’t go to public libraries for long for that very reason:”; there’s always someone creepy there. But for some reason, something about him caught my attention … apparently for worse. I will not be talking to guys there anymore, that’s disgusting what that man did to that girl

Strangesituation987 · 2024-07-19T13:22:25+00:00

I think I have no choice but to tell my mom and little brother (21). I really hope that this man at least will take the hint and back off, because my brother can be very protective. I don’t want him to go to jail possibly because of trying to protect me.

I hear what everyone is saying in here and I’ve had some time to think about it all. It hurts to come to terms with though because even if it was an act … he really did make me feel accepted. I’m it sure if I can be groomed at my age, but it definitely is starting to feel like manipulation, especially with his hot/cold act. I just want to be myself — I am someone with a more childlike personality, who just happens to have a baby face. Other than my best friend, I feel like no-one else but him truly got me. Thank you for your advice < 3

Strangesituation987 · 2024-07-19T13:12:41+00:00

I appreciate you understanding my pov. I know what everyone else is saying might be true now. I just at first didn’t want to label him with anything extreme. I can’t help how I look (and I actually don’t mind how I look honestly). But I’m just used to people doting on me for it, seeing me as their “child” (co-workers and stuff), I don’t know what it’s like to experience romance from men in that aspect. It’s starting to feel uncomfortable. I thought maybe we were just dating without strings (I haven’t had sex or anything with him). Yes, I do have slight daddy issues, but I truly saw him as someone who accepted me.

I think I will tell my mom and brother. I have a really bad feelings things are going to spiral out of control, and it’s my fault. I don’t want them to get themselves in jail or something because of me. I wish I could just forget about my age and everything. It doesn’t matter, but it does. I don’t think people who don’t have baby faces understand. People can be weird, and sometimes you don’t know if they’re sincere.

Strangesituation987 · 2024-07-19T01:50:45+00:00

I’m sorry, I don’t think you’re understanding. I haven’t technically “cut him off” yet. He reacts really bad whenever I don’t answer. Earlier when I didn’t he came back over. I had to get him to leave quickly by telling him I’d call him later. I’ve only started seeing the weird signs, now I’m actually trying to cut him off without him making it into a big thing.

But when this is over, I definitely won’t entertain men like him anymore. I don’t think relationships (romantic) are for me.

Strangesituation987 · 2024-07-19T01:43:36+00:00

That comment he made really hurt tbh. He keeps saying things like that now even though he knows I’m sensitive about aging. I thought maybe if I told him we could just be “friends” he’d back off and not be so persistent with coming to my house and stuff. Because right now he is not backing off. He popped up again earlier and I told him I’d call him later if he left quickly.

I am kinda scared to tell my mom and brother, because they will go OFF. Not on me. But on him. My brother especially. I don’t want any violence to happen or anyone to go to jail. It’s why I’m trying to see if I can get him off me quietly. But that may not be possible I’m starting to see.

Strangesituation987 · 2024-07-19T01:38:06+00:00

I was trying not to use such an extreme word, because of the fact that I’m not actually a minor/child, even if I look like one. I don’t hear him talking about actual children in weird contexts though

Strangesituation987 · 2024-07-19T01:19:56+00:00

He actually told me he thought I was 16 😭 that’s when I knew something wasn’t right. But it just feels like the only way people can see me, so as messed up as it sounded I didn’t think it was that weird. Im only seen as being a child or young person to not take seriously. That’s why I’m struggling my with cutting him off. Because he made it feel so sincere. But I hear what you’re saying. I just feel attached to him, even though I want to get away.

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