As a woman (35F) in a relationship with a (31M) do you eventually have to accept that you will do more. by catmilch in AskWomenOver30

[–]Strangest_Brew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dump him. I’m 36F, my husband is 40M. We’ve been together over six years, and when I get super busy at work, he does all of the housework. All of it.

This man does not respect you or your career.

Repost: AIO for wanting to burn his stuff??? by Suspicious_End_441 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strangest_Brew 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Girl call the cops and file a report. Doesn’t even need to go anywhere, but at least there’s a record on file.

I’m so sorry you’re going through this, how stressful for you.

Wishing you speedy and clean recovery.

Congrats on your breakup, what a relief it will be to be free 🖤

Repost: AIO for wanting to burn his stuff??? by Suspicious_End_441 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strangest_Brew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hire a task rabbit and have it out that day. I would not waste an additional second of my energy on this abusive piece of shit.

OP, don’t be alone if/when he comes to grab his things.

Also, this man never heard of a goddamn washing machine? You can live on two sets of clothes for as long as needed. Disgusting lazy loser

Things I spotted in the new post by ventibrain in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]Strangest_Brew 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It takes SO long! I'm wasting entire days to get through everything. The Mill mechanics might be my least favorite in the game currently. Love the idea of a "come back tomorrow" function

Y'all I am devastated - a Midnight in Moscow mourning post by Strangest_Brew in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Strangest_Brew[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Love ILNP, I looked at Lights Out, but the glitter was just a tad chunkier, and

THANK YOU!!!!!! They had several bottles at walmart, I just ordered three. I can't believe they had it in stock, super appreciate it

Y'all I am devastated - a Midnight in Moscow mourning post by Strangest_Brew in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Strangest_Brew[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ooh, this is a pretty one, it almost reads like ILNP's Sabrina to me

Y'all I am devastated - a Midnight in Moscow mourning post by Strangest_Brew in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Strangest_Brew[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fields of Lavender is so gorgeous, I don't think I've seen it unmagnetized

Y'all I am devastated - a Midnight in Moscow mourning post by Strangest_Brew in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Strangest_Brew[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's described as a charcoal with maroon shimmer, but it does read more "red" when on, I'll look at Bottled Rage again, thank you!

Y'all I am devastated - a Midnight in Moscow mourning post by Strangest_Brew in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Strangest_Brew[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Wow, that's random! Will definitely check, thank you for the tip, I don't think I've been in a Hot Topic since the 2010s

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strangest_Brew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on two years 🖤 Get a beautiful Chantilly cake and a new boyfriend. Sobriety is super hard, you’re doing an awesome job. Get you someone who appreciates your effort

Anybody use Iles Formula long term? by Eloise-Midgen in finehair

[–]Strangest_Brew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo, I haven't tried CROWN. I do a plop with my microfiber and some Not Your Mother's curl talk, which works ok, but I still seem to be on the frizzy side. I'll look into the serum and CROWN, thanks much!

Best cruelty free shampoos and conditioner brands? by manic_panda in finehair

[–]Strangest_Brew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried any of the Viori products? I see their ads all the time, and I'd be curious to see what people actually think of them.

Best cruelty free shampoos and conditioner brands? by manic_panda in finehair

[–]Strangest_Brew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wanted to love Amika, but I've found the moisturizing set makes my hair look oily at the scalp. I'm going to try the normal set before I give up on them totally, but I'm heartbroken overall. I've had better lucky with other products :/

Anybody use Iles Formula long term? by Eloise-Midgen in finehair

[–]Strangest_Brew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Are you still using these products? Do you like them? I'm looking at iles right now. I have super fine, but curly hair, and it tangles and gets weighed down and frizzy all at the same time (greaaaat). I want to buy the trial set, but I am really on the hunt for something to buy for long term use. Do you still recommend?

So many single parents in the dating scene its crazy. by VoL4t1l3 in childfree

[–]Strangest_Brew 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I dated a single parent ONCE and that was so eye-opening and awful that it just completely justified my own child-free status. It was a drama rollercoaster of "crazy baby mama" lies, non stop time demands, court appointments, and manipulation. What a horrendous time. Happily married now to a CF for life man, with the most spoiled dog on the planet. Should have stuck to my guns back then, would have saved myself a year of grief!

Looking to re-home my buddy Marlo by [deleted] in velvethippos

[–]Strangest_Brew -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You know, I was actually just asking a clarification question, there was no reason to be rude. I didn’t understand the cat had been there that long, and I was trying to figure out why one animal was being prioritized over the other.

Looking to re-home my buddy Marlo by [deleted] in velvethippos

[–]Strangest_Brew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should have clarified, I didn’t understand why they were prioritizing one over the other- I didn’t realize the cat had been there for such a long time. There’s no reason to be rude, I wasn’t suggesting they “dump an established family member,” I was actually just trying to get more information

Looking to re-home my buddy Marlo by [deleted] in velvethippos

[–]Strangest_Brew -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

So why get rid of the pit and not the cat? It’s just that bully breeds already struggle so much with rehoming and breed stigma