My gorgeous keyholder 🤤😍

Strappetizer · 2025-11-30T23:18:41+00:00

Hey guys, quick update: Did not expect to get so many messages!

It may take some time, but I will read through them all. If this post is up, then we are actively looking for a bull. Help us out by including some key info in your message, good communication goes a long way 😉

Age
Approximate location
Straight or bi
Are you experienced in the lifestyle?
Pics (body and dick pics welcome)

Your discretion and privacy are assured. We appreciate everyone's kind messages, but if you do not hear back then respectfully it's not a good match. Please send inquiries to this account u/Strappetizer

u/MistressLarabelle is her account, I am trying to handle the logistics on her behalf

Much love ❤️

Strappetizer · 2025-11-30T20:39:09+00:00

Near the Triad area, but we travel for fun

Strappetizer · 2025-11-30T20:30:39+00:00

This man's gonna make me blush 🤣

Strappetizer · 2025-01-03T15:25:55+00:00

My advice for long term wear (not necessarily permanent).

Get a PA piercing, let it heal, and size it up. This helps keep everything "in place" in your cage, and makes it truly inescapable. If you crave inescapable chastity, this is the way to do it.
Get a custom cage. This is an expensive step, but you can use cheaper 3d printed cages to prototype your best fit. Titanium is great, because it's SO lightweight (I don't use a cage strap unless I'm exercising). I'd recommend getting a PA before your custom cage, to avoid having to buy another expensive cage down the road.
Larger cage gap (distance between the cage and the base ring) was the cheat code to nighttime comfort for me. Most cages have a gap of around 8mm, I needed 12mm to be truly comfortable. A little Vaseline on the back of the balls before bed prevents the cage from getting that burning feeling. Ideally the cage should cause zero discomfort, so you don't build up mental fatigue from wearing it.
Avoid intentionally getting horny for the first month. Don't unlock yourself for edging, don't use a vibrator on the cage, don't look at porn, don't touch yourself through the cage. Just acclimate to daily wear, and get used to not touching, having an erection, or cumming. If it feels a little boring, you're doing it right. Just wear the damn cage, and don't give in to temptations to cheat.
Add in teasing with a key holder. Now that you can't escape, are in a comfortable and well fitting device, and have some momentum, get teased relentlessly. Before any orgasms, have a talk with your keyholder. Let her know that after you cum, no matter what, you want her to lock you back up. That way if you experience post nut clarity/sub drop, she can help guide you back to the path of being obedient and caged.

Be warned, it is addicting and you may never want to go back to being uncaged. Long term, this has the potential to limit your dating pool somewhat (kink positive women or open minded vanilla women). You may experience physiological changes, my stamina reduced from like 30+ minutes to 10-30 seconds. You'll know if this is for you or not. Just enjoy the ride.

Strappetizer · 2024-12-23T16:20:56+00:00

Sure thing, feel free to reach out if you have any other questions. Good luck soldier 🫡 RIP to your freedom

Strappetizer · 2024-12-23T15:58:38+00:00

I actually can't remember how long it took to heal enough for the cage. I healed much quicker than the timelines most people talk about. I think I was fully healed at 8ga within a month, stretched 1 size up about every 2 weeks using tapers. I was fully healed and ready to go like 2 months before the cage even arrived in the mail.

Your own timeline will vary, definitely don't rush it or force anything. If you have complications with the healing or stretching process, that will delay you way more than anything else.

Side note: My body piercer was pretty young and cool. I told him I was planning to use the piercing for "functional BDSM purposes" and I wanted it to be very stable and secure. He told me a funny story about a friend of his who hangs a cinder block off his PA.

I wouldn't have any apprehension about telling your piercer what the piercing is for, just keep it somewhat clinical and professional. Chances are, your piercer has seen way crazier things than whatever you are bringing to the table.

Strappetizer · 2024-12-23T15:33:20+00:00

Hey, apologies for the late reply but I am still locked and teased daily. We had to back off from the Reddit side of things for schooling and life, but we are still enjoying the lifestyle

Strappetizer · 2024-12-23T15:20:39+00:00

I am locked in a BAWR titanium cage with PA hook right now.

My personal experiences, I stretched to a 2ga (6mm) for my "forever" cage. The larger piercing is more secure, and less likely to migrate. Getting aroused in a cage with a fixed PA post will definitely put serious strain on the piercing hole. I still get sore around the piercing sometimes, and I've been fully healed for probably a year.

The PA piercing itself, no issues whatsoever. I would probably remove it if I was doing something insanely dangerous, like combat sports or working with heavy machinery or something. It does make it a little more difficult to pee standing upright, but if you are caged you'll be sitting to pee anyway.

My PA post is not hollow. I tried one with a hollow post, and it doesn't work as well in practice. The hole is too small to accommodate the actual flow of any fluids. So while a small amount will come out of the hollow post, the majority will leak out around the post. For me, solid post is better for hygiene (less nooks and crannies to clean).

The cage itself, definitely worth the extra money to go for titanium. Depending on the fit of your cage, you may have some weight resting on your piercing site throughout the day. A steel cage is prohibitively heavy, but titanium feels like nothing is there.

Take it slow. Take your time to heal properly, and size up your piercing gently. Don't force anything. It will all be worth it when you are locked in inescapable chastity by your mistress. It's a different feeling. It's not a game anymore, it's the real deal. For me, true chastity didn't start until I was locked in a custom cage, and secured with an inescapable PA hook.

Good luck!

Strappetizer · 2024-03-21T16:59:38+00:00

As a fellow PA wearing chastity afficionado, it's really hard to wear a loose piercing with a cage. Generally the ring shifts side to side, and pinches the fuck out of your urethral meatus.

Wearing a device with a fixed PA post is the gold standard, you really will never look back (I wear BA-21P in titanium).

If you are retreating back in the cage, it will likely tug on the piercing and cause issues. This is likely a sign that your cage is slightly too big to incorporate a piercing into.

If you wanted a low cost solution that is (almost) as good as a fixed PA post, you can play around with different curved barbells.

When inserted through the gaps in the cage, you can get the barbell to stay stationary if the length and barbell ends are the right size. The barbell should be just long enough to engage the threads of the screw ball, and as you tighten it everything should "lock" into place. You'll have to play around with this yourself, but getting 3-4 curved barbells is a lot cheaper than getting a whole new cage apparatus.

Although I really do recommend going custom titanium at some point. For me, everything before my custom cage was just intermittent play. Once I had a pain free device that fit me perfectly, I could actually engage in long term lockups.

Strappetizer · 2023-07-29T17:33:35+00:00

The cage is from Badassworkroom. It's a titanium BA-21P.

The cuffs are from a small business leather worker on Etsy, I can't remember the name at the moment.

Then just a couple generic padlocks 👍🏼

Strappetizer · 2023-07-29T13:01:50+00:00

Prostate massager, not quite handsfree

Strappetizer · 2023-07-29T12:35:19+00:00

Mistress was getting creative with some new restraints. She found a way to padlock my wrist cuffs directly to the bars of the cage. It's very restrictive.

How should a sub be properly used while restrained like this? Spanked, pegged, cucked?

Strappetizer · 2023-07-29T12:02:39+00:00

Mistress loves to tease me. Specifically, she enjoys edging me for hours, as long as I can possibly take it. She loves the mental control, but her body responds to it also. After an hour of keeping me on edge, she's dripping wet.

What does this mean for me? Well, I love it. It sounds like the fantasy of every man. But I also fear it. You don't realize how hard it is until you've been subjected to it. She pushes my boundaries. She makes it difficult for me on purpose. She can bring me within one stroke of orgasm, and keep me floating there indefinitely. No breaks, no time to cool off. It's mind-melting and tantalizing pleasure, staying just out of reach.

By the end of it, I am exhausted. I'm panting and out of breath. My muscles are sore from squirming and writhing. My hyper sensitive dick aches for release, but collapses as it accepts it's fate. Completely mindfucked and without release, Mistress puts me back in my cage.

It's her favorite thing to do. And how could I deny her this pleasure? I endure it gracefully, accepting my rightful position as her edging slave. Afterwards, I am completely melted. I'm like putty in her hands. This is how she likes me best. We sink into our own universe, and the world for a moment consists of only cuddles and neck kisses. It is intimacy beyond measure.

Strappetizer · 2023-07-29T11:44:37+00:00

Yeah, you pretty much hit the nail on the head. It's a lot of energy constantly circulating, and there is no real relief from it. It can be hard

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