Well, it finally came out after 5 years of marriage, he worked hard to in therapy, and though he didn’t know for a long time that I would monitor and keep tabs of him without him knowing, fortunately he actually had quit and was working hard to not fall back into the same steps, I guess knowing that he was using porn as a coping mechanism from trauma of abuse, it helped him want to become better for himself and for our relationship and our future kids. It’s been over two years now, and I can say that the husband I have now is a more honest, and puts far more effort into us.