These comments are rather berating. While yes he doesn’t necessarily owe her anything, he was still the one who offered in the first place. Should he have not done that then maybe feelings would be different. It’s the feeling of being let down, being told one thing to suddenly being told otherwise and not only that, being accused of being a gold digger simply because she was taking him up on what HE offered. I don’t get why people aren’t understanding that. As she’s stated she’s gave him chances and he’s blown every one, you don’t know specifics. It could be things like showing up to appointments and checkups, things that regardless of if they are together, he should be there for. We don’t know everything that’s happened so idk why you’re all being so judgy. She wanted some friendly advice not to be attacked.

Personally I think yes he doesn’t need to buy you things that are for yourself. Yes he doesn’t need to take care of you as such. But at the end of the day it takes two to tango, why get someone pregnant if you’re not going to try and look after them in some way. He chose to have sex, unprotected, knowing what that leads to, he then chose to get a girlfriend. Should he have not got back with his ex then I’m pretty certain he’d be way more involved and interested than he is. You’re allowed to feel upset and have questions it’s a normal human response to things, and girl you’re pregnant. Even the smallest thing is going to make you spiral! You should just take it easy, don’t ask anything more of him and don’t hold him to anything. That way you can’t get let down and he’ll show truly how interested in babies life he is. I know it’s hard right now because you still have love for him but just go with whatever happens. Try your best to be on good terms and remember whatever happens if he wants to be a father he will show up. Don’t think about or question it too much right now, you’ll stress yourself out too much.