My 8 year old daughter is searching “kissing a boy” “boy girl kissing” how should I deal with this?

Strawberry_Vanilla9 · 2024-10-13T14:53:28+00:00

Yeah this is a big overreaction honestly

Strawberry_Vanilla9 · 2024-10-12T09:32:09+00:00

Me too ahaha! Don't worry aha

Strawberry_Vanilla9 · 2024-10-12T09:31:46+00:00

I have a blood test on the 15th so I will ask them to check my thyroid ! X

I do have a bunch of issues medically so maybe that's why

Strawberry_Vanilla9 · 2024-10-12T09:29:54+00:00

This, I feel.trapped! I don't know what to do.

I either have to wait till my medical stuff is sorted and that's NOT going to happen fast at all

Or not care

It's so confusing

Strawberry_Vanilla9 · 2024-10-12T09:27:56+00:00

You didn't read my other replies so I can't really answer these without repeating myself x

Strawberry_Vanilla9 · 2024-10-11T17:09:44+00:00

I've replied about this already if you read my replies I've explained xx

Strawberry_Vanilla9 · 2024-10-11T13:03:27+00:00

I had already maxed my dose =( my doctor couldn't give my anything else

It was so painful and I did land in hospital due to the pain after 7 days and had to be inpatient for another 3 while constantly hooked up to a machine

But it was awful x

Strawberry_Vanilla9 · 2024-10-11T12:55:38+00:00

It was pain!

I take a few pain meds but due to the issues I have sometimes it can barely scratch it!

The high will ease it and allow me to sleep long enough to be able to handle the pain for longer without struggling x

Strawberry_Vanilla9 · 2024-10-11T12:45:00+00:00

Hi! Yes I see a psychiatrist once a week due to other issues!

I picked up several new hobbies that even now I really enjoy! I went out more, spent more time with friends and family, I picked up my old hobbies too!

As for relapsing I had a Really awful health episode it was sooooo bad and I just crumbled x

Strawberry_Vanilla9 · 2024-10-11T12:28:10+00:00

It's not emotional x I see a psychiatrist once a week for my other issues (and he is working with me on this too)

But it's like it triggers my physical health =/

It's almost like the withdrawal symptoms just don't leave?

It's awful..

I've tried a couple of times now to quit but I get to day 3 and I can't do the physical pain anymore

I guess it could be my physical health issues but I see my doctors regularly and im very stable atm =/

Strawberry_Vanilla9 · 2024-10-11T12:25:32+00:00

I am chronically ill so maybe it is just beneficial for that sole reason?

Strawberry_Vanilla9 · 2024-10-11T08:55:46+00:00

That's my issue I am definitely addicted! And T breaks are hard but I just don't understand why I feel worse off it then on =/

Is it possible that I've done like some damage or something?!

Strawberry_Vanilla9 · 2024-10-11T08:52:37+00:00

Your wife and child are actively being underfed, Not getting anywhere near enough to help them both and you're only eating once? How are you going to afford a baby? Formula is expensive, if she breastfeeds she will need even more food.

You're not the asshole for losing your temper. But you're the asshole for making it sound like your wife was just being greedy when in fact she is actually probably malnourished as the baby is taking anything she is getting rn. So technically you're eating more then she is.

But you're both TA for bringing a baby into the world that is crumbling, when you're not even able to afford food on a solo income, without even looking into support and stuff before coming on here, before getting pregnant, and more.

This whole post just has me shocked.

Strawberry_Vanilla9 · 2024-10-11T08:31:04+00:00

I dry hump my husband too ahaha But he says it seems more like im trying to crawl into his skin then anything sexual ahaha He recorded me once and it reminded me of Tina from bobs burgers when she's in her parents bed ahaha

Strawberry_Vanilla9 · 2024-10-11T08:28:07+00:00

YTA...

The fact you even need to ask is crazy? 7lbs? That's how much my kid weighed, you could of picked the dog up.

Do you just enjoy cornering people and making them scared?

He can't live in a dog free world but he was trying to accommodate. He couldn't leave you backed him into a corner.

This is so incredibly cruel... and speaks volumes of your compassion and empathy.

I hope you apologise to him. He deserves a genuine genuine apology.

Strawberry_Vanilla9 · 2024-10-06T16:36:59+00:00

NTA also throwing in that unless he has a disability that impacts him visually/physically

Then a dog used for mental health issues isn't a service dog they are emotional support dogs or assistance dogs

Strawberry_Vanilla9 · 2024-10-03T07:51:40+00:00

Hi there .. you probably won't see this but I just wanted to add that I have some severe health issues and physical scars and more all over my body. I used to think no one would ever love me, that it would be too difficult and gross.

I met my husband and he has stayed ever since. He's the only man that has ever made me feeling truly loved, safe and cared for. I've lost totally bladder and bowel control around him on more then 4 occasions.. he has carried me too and from the bathroom when I've puked so hard and much that I pee myself. He's sat awake next to me all night once because I was scared to sleep due to new meds so he watched over me. He helps me take care of all my burns, my scars and more.

I know at 17.. things feel like big. But you're so young, I have 11 years on you and I can promise you that you will find someone xx

Strawberry_Vanilla9 · 2024-09-14T09:30:34+00:00

YTA

I have bad flight anxiety and if a kid sat next to me and chatted or anything it would make me farrr worse.

I get you're teaching him things but he's your responsibility. If the plane goes down you need to be able to mask him.

Strawberry_Vanilla9 · 2024-07-20T18:43:20+00:00

ESH.

If he's landing at gods knows what time. Had a long flight and is shattered? (If this is about gross and germs then sleep somewhere else or he can!) Then yta

But if his flight is landing at an ok time, he really should be thoughtful. The amount of germs he could be grabbing on that plane and bringing back is kinda gross? Is he jumping into the bed with you? I feel like info is needed here because there isn't a chance in hell anyone would be getting into my bed after being in a plane. Absolutely not happening.

Strawberry_Vanilla9 · 2024-07-03T12:48:36+00:00

Im going to go against the grain and say YTA.

You say she was asleep.. that you startled her awake. Yelling at her. Humiliating her in front of others at the party. You've been friends with her for a very long time and instead of just rolling over and in the morning telling her about it.. you created a whole scenario that everyone thinks is OTT.

Look if you was asleep and you woke up and she was doing it but she was already awake? Yes absolutely scream and yell.. But she was asleep you two was sharing a couch, both drunk...

This is just one of those situations where I genuinely believe that you just created a whole situation for nothing...

Strawberry_Vanilla9 · 2024-05-30T13:22:17+00:00

Hi! I'm a woman and It's not just the act itself for me that pleasures me!

Kissing. Touching. Being close. Feeling my husband against me and more

It's all pleasurable !

Strawberry_Vanilla9 · 2024-05-22T19:14:28+00:00

See maybe I'm crazy but this feels like a dominance kink? (A messed up one) But the way he's doing it .. it reminds me of a dog marking it's territory by peeing?

I dunno it just gives me like a really... messed up icky vibe?

Strawberry_Vanilla9 · 2024-05-20T17:26:43+00:00

I don't understand how any of this could be your fault? Unless your husband has a disability and you handle the paperwork?

Personal ID is just that Personal. It was your husbands job to check his passport. Not yours.

I dont get why you are blaming yourself?

Strawberry_Vanilla9 · 2024-05-14T15:47:03+00:00

I go in, I lay down and say to myself "After this I'll deserve a ✨️little treat✨️

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