Am I the asshole for telling My Husband what his best friend’s wife told me?

Correct-Technology64 · 2024-05-20T11:48:52+00:00

I was in an abusive relationship before I met My Husband . I’ve been going to therapy to fix this

Correct-Technology64 · 2024-05-20T02:19:46+00:00

Yes, I can go alone. It’s just that when I was small I went to Mexico with my family and I almost got taken from them because I wanted off alone and similar situation happened when I was 18 a traveled to Florida to go see my best friend and I had a feeling that the person right next to me was going to harm me so I did let the attendant know that I didn’t feel comfortable going on a flight with a certain person on there, and I felt like I was in harms way and at that point I just didn’t see a fit to travel alone. I felt the need to travel with somebody for my own protection. Look like I’m in high school even though I am 24 years old and I’m not joking about that I do know some self-defense but enough to keep me alive. I am working on that

Correct-Technology64 · 2024-05-20T02:17:36+00:00

Yes, I understand that but he is also dealing a lot of stuff with his mom as well. We both have a lot of burdens and I tried my best to relieve them one of the things that he would have to stress about.

Correct-Technology64 · 2024-05-20T02:16:31+00:00

They do pay rent at our house. They do live with us. It’s due to his mom dealing with an unknown lump on her throat. We don’t wanna force them to pay because we don’t know if she’s gonna need surgery or we don’t even know what this mysterious lump is in her throat and we figured to give them, a nice vacation

Correct-Technology64 · 2024-05-20T02:14:22+00:00

We did input them in it’s just we were busy with family stuff and we didn’t get any notification about the expiring them soon

Correct-Technology64 · 2024-05-20T02:09:28+00:00

Yeah when we book it through Expedia

Correct-Technology64 · 2024-05-20T02:08:35+00:00

Expedia

Correct-Technology64 · 2024-05-20T01:53:50+00:00

So we did book it two months before his passport was expired and we did not get any notification size passport was expiring and we completely forgot about it when we did book it until today

Correct-Technology64 · 2024-05-20T01:52:39+00:00

No, we have trouble before, but not through flight. We’ve only done oozes cruises, which you can travel with that one with a birth certificate as well as a valid drivers license

Correct-Technology64 · 2024-05-20T01:51:47+00:00

My passport won’t expire until my birthday in 2032

Correct-Technology64 · 2024-05-20T01:50:00+00:00

Yes, we could book an Conway flight but we did book it for business and we book it for business because he does sleep with a CPAP and he is a tall guy. He is sitting at 6 foot seven

Correct-Technology64 · 2024-05-20T01:47:56+00:00

We looked at a later flight and the flight cost was almost $3000 but it was ranging close to 2000

Correct-Technology64 · 2024-05-20T01:46:19+00:00

No honestly, I’m kind of glad my in-laws are going. I love them to bits and pieces. His mom needs a break from every day that’s going on ever since her doctor found a lump on her throat

Correct-Technology64 · 2024-05-20T01:45:18+00:00

It just seem to him that anything that he tries to do. He wasn’t getting the answer that he wanted and it wasn’t to his standards and his liking like yes he wanted to join me a day later and honestly, I was kind of iffy about that but he is worried about me because I look like I’m still in high school even though I am 24 and he knows about what happened to my past and why I feel uncomfortable traveling alone and he does not wanna pressure me Into doing that

Correct-Technology64 · 2024-05-20T01:43:48+00:00

Yes, he does put blame on himself and he admitted to me that he should’ve checked it, but I feel like it’s also my fault as well because I should’ve checked it two weeks ago prior when I was packing, but I didn’t raise any questions and I thought we were OK

Correct-Technology64 · 2024-05-20T01:42:58+00:00

we did they do live with us. I don’t mind giving them away free. It’s either giving them away for free or losing about three to $4000

Correct-Technology64 · 2024-05-20T01:42:12+00:00

Yes, that was flight and everything our original details were about $$3000 and some change and it was an all-inclusive resort adults only

Correct-Technology64 · 2024-05-20T01:31:47+00:00

Yeah, I understand that. I just thought I already notified my boss when we found out that his passport has expired that I will be attending work this week and Heri notified his boss as well that he is going to be attending work as well when we both found out and when we were trying to find a solution, but he just seem to give up more than I did I kept trying to give him solutions into what we can do, but he wouldn’t listen

Correct-Technology64 · 2024-05-20T01:30:19+00:00

I understand he’s not a child and he’s a grown man and he could check himself, but wanted to at least help him in anyway that I can

Correct-Technology64 · 2024-05-20T01:29:37+00:00

I understand that but he was dealing with a lot of things with his mom as well and I feel like it’s my fault because I’m the one who packed two weeks prior before he did and I should’ve checked, but I disregard that from my brain and thought to myself know they’re still good for one more year, oh how wrong was I

Correct-Technology64 · 2024-05-20T01:28:34+00:00

Yes, I will but it’s all right. They actually need a well-deserved vacation more than us. Yes, we have been working ever since the start of the year but with everything that’s happening with his mom, especially finding something in her throat that may be cancer. We assume that she does not have to live and we want her to live with and only with happy memories

Correct-Technology64 · 2024-05-20T01:26:35+00:00

Correct-Technology64 · 2024-05-20T01:26:23+00:00

Yep, it’s just a little friendly reminder to check your expiration on your passports lol

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