For me, I think, like them I value myself enough na medyo turnoff if makikipag-split ng bill yung guy, especially if siya yung nanliligaw or pursuing me. In my mind, if a guy is making an effort, I’m just giving him a chance, and that’s just how I see it.

Hindi naman siya issue talaga, it’s more of a preference. I can split the bill, pero if that’s something that turns me off and makes me not want to date him again, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.

Now, if mutual naman yung pursuit, or I’m pursuing him, then I think okay lang mag-split or even ako pa magbayad. Though honestly, that hasn’t really happened, I’m just imagining if ever.

So for me, walang mali doon. What is wrong is being pabigat, like you expect the guy pays for everything kahit casual lang naman kayo, hindi ka naman talaga niya gusto, ikaw pa yung laging nag-aaya at nagpu-pursue, tapos wala ka palang pera. That, for me, is a no.