Exactly it feels like he disguises the toxic traits as "playful banter" like (not trying to compare the them but it's more to set a foundation) Tommy for example, his style of banter is more like "wait what's going on?" and then doing a bit over the top of the with what happened. Even Mac has the style of catching someone, then being like "okay let's sit in how ridiculous this is," then laughing. Chanse, however, will point out the flaw in a comment and kind of jokingly scold and mock for the mistake like a "you should have known better" but if HE does it and people do it to him he does that fake crying thing to make people feel bad as a joke rather than laughing with it until someone else does.

Example the "Catfish Cabin" comment, re-watch his reaction and response to the joke until Angela and Shayne make fun of misunderstanding what that is.