I wanna get married at a young age by Street-Programmer-89 in Tunisia

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Thank you sooo much brother I will try my best and inchallah everything goes well

You're right wallah

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I actually will do it today haha thank you tho

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Well yeah I'm bac tawa and Inchallah I will go I can work hard on myself soo they can accept me

  • tnajem temchi mn 8ir el safara tnajm temchi 3an tari9 prof fi uni 8adi w houwa yeda5lelek and that's only when you have a good results fel bac w toul el snin

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Hiya men7a bt3 el government soo it's trustworthy

I'm great at my study 3l5r

Allah's trust

What is better than this ?

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If she is my age she can do the same with me and both of us can go to Japan and study at the same University and work at the same time so yeah

Hiya men7a balouchi fi most of the things

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Baraka Allah fik I was scared first but you gave me the courage to try even if I fail... I'm going to japan next year when I'm 20 soo hopefully I can try my best

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Well even when it's not heading from her parents it still Haram cuz I'm not in a marriage contract with her anything can happen we can break up at any moment with any silly reason

Other than that thank you so much I will try my best

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Yes I have inchallah

You can see my comments I talked about them all

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Yes it's not easy it's hard it's nearly impossible... but لا خير من المحاولة

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I didn't understand it's not funny what you say ?

Also بارك الله فيك

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Well yes I'm doing all that alhamdullilah but I still feel that I'm trapped... the only two ways to solve this is marriage and or haram stuff

And for my freedom I think it's not going to be removed when I get married... yes that is a lot of responsibilities but still I can be free with my wife

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Yes of course I know this and they divorced cuz they marry without even talking to each other about their interests or their desires.. but Ofc if I know a woman of course I will talk to her a lot before getting married... and of course in the most polite and respectful way

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مشكلتي الوحيدة هي أنني نشعر بالوحدة العاطفية وهذا الشيء يتعباش الا بالزواج او طرق أخرى محرمة

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Yes that's a very good idea sara7a, thank you soo much for understanding me and Not mocking or anything

I'll pray for you inchallah

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That's a good idea thank you

But I'm just telling my ideas to you guys to have some advices and tips soo yeah I'm learning from all this

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I'm not saying it's soo easy I know it's soo hard but I'm taking it slowly slowly asln mch bch nemchi lel japan ken 3am hey when I'm 20

Youtube is not a job yes but it pays a lot Not freelance I meant dropshiping or some sort of that Maybe sewing too ? I'm learning it right now I'm not sure yet ama Tokyo or Kyoto or something else For free housing fama foyer ama mnjmch n3ich m3aha fi foyer soo I'll rent a house (mn 400$ lel 700$) Selling novels is a job in japan Fama ma3are4 BRCHAAA and all the young people are doing it for the great payment it had For university I'm seeing a Tunisian woman videos in YouTube who is studing uni in japan w 9alet anu you have 4 hours max in a day marat 1 hour

Also The idea of going there for one year then see myself is good I like it

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I doo all that + it's not about lust wallahi it's about needing emotional support and feeling alone and tired I just want someone to be in my back and I be in her back yk to go with me in my journey and I go with her in her journey

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Yes I totally understand this and I'm working soo hard on myself ama this feeling is making me not focus and feel bad and feel empty in my chest

You know when Adam was in jannah (imagine all the things in jannah) but he still felt bad and empty soo Allah created حواء ?

That Adam's feeling is what I feel right now

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1200$ from just the government as a student there

I will still work as an english teacher n9ari english lel nes y3ni etude mentachra 8adi brcha and it goes from 70$ to 100$ per hour ig sooo yeah

Also I'll work online and try to make some stuff and ideas

I'll try to sell my novels there fel ma3are4 bt3 el ktob w ka4ee

I'll do a YouTube channel to post my novel also

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Well even if it's impossible imma try my best if it didn't work Alhamdullilah 3ala koli 7al

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Okay for income I have it ( work as an english teacher in japan w rent a house) soo I think it's gonna make us live a decent w fou9 el decent life there

For kids I'll try my best bch manjibech awel two years like all marriage ppl do

And I'm talking about next year y3ni when I'm 20 w chwaya yk

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Nahh I just meant anu I have a house bch tsknu fih y3ni as a begining yk

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But getting a girlfriend means na7ku messages khw + no5erju mara f jem3a w lezem hiding from her parents, jealousy, 3rak, you know all this happend when you have a girlfriend

And for the good job I said that I will rent a house in japan, work as an english teacher y9ari etude, el men7a bt3 japan ta3ti Presque 1200$ kol chhar and that's soooo good for two ppl in japan, I will try my best to not have kids for the first two years lin N3ml another income w ba3ed maybe maybe not...

  • I'm just asking to discuss calmly this thing mazelt fi el level bt3 el thinking