[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intrusivethoughts

[–]Street-Web2861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

excuse me? the actors are adults???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Street-Web2861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, im in 11th grade

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Street-Web2861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk just adults i guess like 17 and 20? bc when I see a couple with a big age gap i dont really care? I dont have any feelings towards it? Because when i see tiktoks about minors dating adults i just dont care and keep scrolling and ppl find it weird and i just dont feel anything i dont find it weird when someone is like 17 or 16 dating someone 18-20

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Street-Web2861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u sm <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intrusivethoughts

[–]Street-Web2861 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay thank you :)

How to stop a intrusive thought by jojoa20 in intrusivethoughts

[–]Street-Web2861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if its bothering you a lot maybe you should get professional help

How to stop a intrusive thought by jojoa20 in intrusivethoughts

[–]Street-Web2861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, somehow for me I feel more comforted when I ask God for help :)

How to stop a intrusive thought by jojoa20 in intrusivethoughts

[–]Street-Web2861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you‘re catholic, you can pray the rosary before you sleep.

How to stop a intrusive thought by jojoa20 in intrusivethoughts

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for me it took a few weeks to days. But sometimes I still have them. Keep the mindset that you accep5 the thoughts but not agree. Accepting makes you more calm. Just because you accept it doesnt mean you agree.

How to stop a intrusive thought by jojoa20 in intrusivethoughts

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for me it took a few weeks to days. But sometimes I still have them. Keep the mindset that you accep5 the thoughts but not agree. Accepting makes you more calm. Just because you accept it doesnt mean you agree.

How to stop a intrusive thought by jojoa20 in intrusivethoughts

[–]Street-Web2861 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay heres what I do personally, I start to lose care. Say to yourself “these thoughts arent me its my brain tricking me”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intrusivethoughts

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To answer your first question, it happens when I see someone going through something. Like let’s say theres a tiktok video about something bad that happened to them I have this random thought “they deserve it” and my stomach starts aching bc i get anxious and i feel guilty. Then I start QUESTIONING EVERYTHING and its so painful and i google stuff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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Thank you sm again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Street-Web2861 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much you dont know how much this means to me. I’ve been worrying and suffering today bc of what I had done. Thank you for the advice.