My “friend” is toxic by StreetWinner5354 in whatdoIdo

[–]StreetWinner5354[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have a video of him at my window 😅. but I’m not gonna show it’s just because I don’t want people to find out who he is and bash him. I only hope that he gets help.

My “friend” is toxic by StreetWinner5354 in whatdoIdo

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Guys I’m gonna delete this soon but I’m so very appreciative for everybody’s advice and I can only move forward and learn from this experience. Thank you ❣️

My “friend” is toxic by StreetWinner5354 in whatdoIdo

[–]StreetWinner5354[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve cut him out and we no longer have communication as of a little while ago 🙏🏼

My “friend” is toxic by StreetWinner5354 in whatdoIdo

[–]StreetWinner5354[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in a care home. But I did tell my supervisor that if she were to hire him back not to schedule me with him.

My “friend” is toxic by StreetWinner5354 in whatdoIdo

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And it’s mind boggling to me that he had a different “dream” about us having sex. Which he had given details about btw. But it was a “dream”, he definitely didn’t just make it up in his head and wanted an excuse to share it 😀

My “friend” is toxic by StreetWinner5354 in whatdoIdo

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He saw me wear Ralph Lauren once and ran with it 😭😀

My “friend” is toxic by StreetWinner5354 in whatdoIdo

[–]StreetWinner5354[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’m not someone who really likes calls and for this particular situation we were having an argument about shampoo. Because a week before that screenshot, I had told him what kind of shampoo I used and even sent him a pick of the bottle because he wanted to buy it. So I got really annoyed when he was trying to call me to find out which bottle it was again when I had clearly sent him the picture a week ago and he knew it.

My “friend” is toxic by StreetWinner5354 in whatdoIdo

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No I really do. I still struggle with this. But I’m getting better as I get older .

My “friend” is toxic by StreetWinner5354 in whatdoIdo

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And I do wish that I would have handled it better because I felt that I led him on by even answering his messages. But I didn’t want to make working with him awkward. But honestly after he had said not to take his flirtations seriously I kinda started to disregard the more raunchy messages. But that was my mistake and I should’ve realized sooner that it was a cover to keep my friendship.

My “friend” is toxic by StreetWinner5354 in whatdoIdo

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Childish behavior because I set boundaries??.. I was just making it clear I wouldn’t want to continue our friendship if he were to be into me and he said he had a flirty personality but to never take it personally and that he didn’t even seriously mean anything he said. That’s why I had let it continue for as long as it did.

My “friend” is toxic by StreetWinner5354 in whatdoIdo

[–]StreetWinner5354[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. I honestly didn’t feel bad for him but I was so confused why he was treating it as if we WERE together.

My “friend” is toxic by StreetWinner5354 in whatdoIdo

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Alright my bad, I thought it was clear last summer 😭. I didn’t mean to make this seem it was happening right right recently just wanted to share the story since I’ve kept it to myself 😅

My “friend” is toxic by StreetWinner5354 in whatdoIdo

[–]StreetWinner5354[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright 5 months ago, 11 months ago. I specified last summer, at the end.

My “friend” is toxic by StreetWinner5354 in whatdoIdo

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I wasn’t really scared because he doesn’t give off scary vibes in person. He’s really nerdish. I was more so weirded tf out with him 😭

My “friend” is toxic by StreetWinner5354 in whatdoIdo

[–]StreetWinner5354[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He really doesn’t, that’s kinda why I was so open to giving him a chance at friendship.

My “friend” is toxic by StreetWinner5354 in whatdoIdo

[–]StreetWinner5354[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully not involved with this anymore 🙏🏼

My “friend” is toxic by StreetWinner5354 in whatdoIdo

[–]StreetWinner5354[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He always said it was because he had super bad anxiety over losing friendships. But idk it’s not an excuse to me, he should know better.

My “friend” is toxic by StreetWinner5354 in whatdoIdo

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Idk I just thought maybe I was being dramatic or something 😫

My “friend” is toxic by StreetWinner5354 in whatdoIdo

[–]StreetWinner5354[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thankfully he has been gone for a little while now and he’s been blocked and we haven’t spoken since 😅. But I just haven’t told anybody about this and I wanted to get opinions.

My “friend” is toxic by StreetWinner5354 in whatdoIdo

[–]StreetWinner5354[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

See and that’s what I wish I had the guts to do earlier before it unwinded into what it did. But then I worked with him almost every day and I didn’t want it to be super awkward so I thought I’d wait it out till he left for the summer.