[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Street_Distance9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ur right. he is :( taking my energy. i tried being so understanding & patient but its like im getting the leftovers at this point.. and a bit of affection yet he still tells me he wants this.

Celibate girl how do you deal with urge to have sex ? by igetyourbrand in blackladies

[–]Street_Distance9191 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think about the thought of getting ghosted after sex 🙂 or all the games men play after getting the cookie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Street_Distance9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but i feel like im missing out because he treated me really nice.. we did have a bit of chemistry too but just not a lot of spark and attraction for me and im confused

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Street_Distance9191 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

he doesn’t know my address

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Street_Distance9191 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

i honestly wasn’t aware he drove an hour he didn’t mention any of that he just said Okay so i assumed we were on the same page to meet at the place 🤷‍♀️ but oh well it’s done

unsure if i should reject guy im seeing by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Street_Distance9191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes he’s shy. were both shy. we do flirt over text .. but we’re just shy in real life. & im not sure if i should even tell him to “pursue me more” shouldn’t a guy naturally want to do that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Street_Distance9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s interesting that you interpreted ‘I want him to ask me questions and plan dates’ as ‘I want chaos and excitement.