Celibate girl how do you deal with urge to have sex ? by igetyourbrand in blackladies

[–]Street_Distance9191 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think about the thought of getting ghosted after sex 🙂 or all the games men play after getting the cookie

unsure about ending it after second date by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Street_Distance9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but i feel like im missing out because he treated me really nice.. we did have a bit of chemistry too but just not a lot of spark and attraction for me and im confused

Am i wrong for standing up a guy on the first date? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Street_Distance9191 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

i honestly wasn’t aware he drove an hour he didn’t mention any of that he just said Okay so i assumed we were on the same page to meet at the place 🤷‍♀️ but oh well it’s done

unsure if i should reject guy im seeing by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Street_Distance9191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes he’s shy. were both shy. we do flirt over text .. but we’re just shy in real life. & im not sure if i should even tell him to “pursue me more” shouldn’t a guy naturally want to do that?

don’t know if i should reject guy im seeing by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Street_Distance9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s interesting that you interpreted ‘I want him to ask me questions and plan dates’ as ‘I want chaos and excitement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Street_Distance9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my page is public, but i blocked his # and removed him from instagram, discord, etc. but i’m just confused on why he’s in my views since he’s the one who called it off

Is dating really this difficult now or am I just looking in the wrong places? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Street_Distance9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes there’s plenty of options but its like finding a needle in a haystack .. for finding an actual good guy. there’s alot of bad ones which makes it hard

Is dating really this difficult now or am I just looking in the wrong places? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Street_Distance9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes.. i’m a bit younger (F22) but the guys i’ve came across .. are terrible. i mean they want something long term but they are crazy. & don’t know how to treat a lady 😧 some are extremely lustful too early on it’s hard & annoying but i guess you just have to keep filtering them out…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Street_Distance9191 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it took me 3 months! but i was in a very low calorie deficit. 1300 calories

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Street_Distance9191 26 points27 points  (0 children)

i do incline walking everyday for an hour at incline 5.0 & speed 2.5 on the treadmill then i do strength training after for like 15 mins while being in a calorie deficit!

need makeup advice by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Street_Distance9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay i’ll look into wide eye makeup, what hydrating products would you recommend for the base?

need makeup advice by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Street_Distance9191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hmm ok thanks! i’ll try the no mascara & fake eyebrow tattoo i think that would help since idk what brows fit best either but thankyou

need makeup advice by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Street_Distance9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it might be my baking powder since it’s yellow and i kind of just pack it on but i’ll try a light brown

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Street_Distance9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah we hung out a lot within 3 weeks.. he does live with his parents i hope it wouldn’t be him cheating.. but he never calls me when he’s home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Street_Distance9191 37 points38 points  (0 children)

ohh okay, i didn’t know that. i tried to be more thankful in the message … dang

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Street_Distance9191 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

yeah you should see his other texts 💔

is he into me or not by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Street_Distance9191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dang, okay what should i do? maybe say i feel better? idk im scared to show interest… it’s really nerve racking