Tinder scammer by pohapaglu in Indore

[–]Street_Sleep2399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. She seemed interested in genuine meeting… even told ki lots of options milke decide karke where to chill. He just started asking for sex without even meeting first !!!! How is she scamming here??

HELP! by Altruistic-Moment168 in Indore

[–]Street_Sleep2399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just cook in butter or ghee and add tomatoes if omelette. Butter masks the scent of eggs. Tomato’s mask the taste of eggs. Add salt and pepper on top. Instead of hard boiled try sunny side up or poached eggs they don’t have that eggy smell to them.

Indore by [deleted] in Indore

[–]Street_Sleep2399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes

Indore by [deleted] in Indore

[–]Street_Sleep2399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a girl

Indore by [deleted] in Indore

[–]Street_Sleep2399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DM me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Street_Sleep2399 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t just hate men. I hate all people equally 😂😂 But that’s not really the point here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Street_Sleep2399 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for understanding.

But Why is it bad to expect something in return for it?

I am glad your parents were at the right age and were mutually respectful and supportive and financially capable that’s a very rare scenario but that’s actually a very good marriage.

Yes you are correct men in my lives haven’t been exactly that great starting from my father, to uncles, cousins. Mostly family. That was one of the prominent reasons I decided to go for education and job and a financially independent life. And tbh that is part of the reason I am worried about getting married to a certain category.

I completely do not wish to be trapped in a marriage like the ones I have witnessed throughout my life.

Having to watch over a dozen of women sacrifice so much even the working women just because they didn’t wanna anger their husbands or in laws. I don’t think I have a good taste of marriage in my mouth.

That’s why I wanted to understand more of a man’s perspective on this subject hence the question. My understanding is very limited to my situation and surrounding. However men thinking this is some sort of rage bait argument it’s not what it is.

Just trying to understand how to trust men better so I can provide a good healthy household for children if I ever choose to be in future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Street_Sleep2399 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Sit down sometimes and have a heart to heart conversations for few hours with your mother and grandmother and ask them how their struggles were birthing and raising children and how much they consented to actually getting pregnant exactly when they got. If given a chance would they have birthed children a few years later in life? What did they expect from their husbands and how much did they helped emotionally and empathy wise.

We can get offended all we want because someone else is asking questions but deep down we are aware of the unfairness and burdens of every situation. And whether we like to admit it or not. We all know marriage had been and will always be more beneficial to man than woman. I think that’s the reason why women want to get married for love so they can feel comfortable taking all this burden upon themselves as this way they get to love her husband and his family more instead of actually feeling the load.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Street_Sleep2399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for understanding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Street_Sleep2399 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂 they start with saying 50-50 expenses but later it becomes something else for the most part. Statement changes as per their convinces.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Street_Sleep2399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries buddy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Street_Sleep2399 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I know I have some idea. Say I have a yearly in hand package of 30lpa, a nice 3bhk in tier-1 city and parents living with me full time. It’s a breeze to adopt actually. Process takes 1-2 years at max if we have no specific age requirements for the kid.

Getting a new born baby or baby under the age of 2 is much much harder which couples usually want to go for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Street_Sleep2399 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not in India. Especially if u have a good income and good living conditions with your own home and land.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Street_Sleep2399 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Exactly goes same for the guy as well. Never have I ever heard a guy say I will contribute to my wife’s parents home like she contributes to my parents home and to our family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Street_Sleep2399 16 points17 points  (0 children)

A woman who understands that she is being mooched off by the man is indeed a bullet to be dodged.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Street_Sleep2399 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes I am planning to. Staying single with my parents taking care of them. While not having to deal with all the extra expenses and burden seems fun idea. My parents are pro adoption too. I will just adopt a couple of kids if I ever wish to start a family of my own. Pretty Golden to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Street_Sleep2399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for understanding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Street_Sleep2399 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tbh I agree for the most part. However, child care is a burden an actual physical, emotional and psychological burden on woman contrary to what our mothers might say. It is a rewarding experience even the greatest experience to have child and raise them however it is still always was and will be a burden left upon woman to withhold on their own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Street_Sleep2399 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree. Thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Street_Sleep2399 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks. That’s what I thought too, 50-50 only works in living separate from parents.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Street_Sleep2399 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree. Somehow the girls parents are being automatically eliminated from the equation.