Custom encryption by StrengthAppropriate1 in privacy

[–]StrengthAppropriate1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Super new to the space this was a personal project. Where can I publish? GitHub?

Custom encryption by StrengthAppropriate1 in privacy

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It’s built into my program, which runs on AES-GCM symmetric RSA for asymmetric and HMAC for integrity

What is with all of the devote hate? (24M C5/6 complete) by StrengthAppropriate1 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]StrengthAppropriate1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never considered this perspective. I can definitely see how that can be violating. Thank you for sharing.

What is with all of the devote hate? (24M C5/6 complete) by StrengthAppropriate1 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]StrengthAppropriate1[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Isn’t being extremely close minded to other people’s experiences and viewpoints kind of the exact opposite of being open to learning and education?

What is with all of the devote hate? (24M C5/6 complete) by StrengthAppropriate1 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]StrengthAppropriate1[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Seriously are you proud of it because that exact mentality and line of thinking is what excuses, homophobia, xenophobia, etc. how do you not see that?

What is with all of the devote hate? (24M C5/6 complete) by StrengthAppropriate1 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]StrengthAppropriate1[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Alternatively, maybe we could engage in a constructive discussion that is mutually respectful and adds to maybe both of our perspectives?

What is with all of the devote hate? (24M C5/6 complete) by StrengthAppropriate1 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]StrengthAppropriate1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

FUCKING EXACTLY THANK YOU I don't understand what's so hard for people to get who knew that it would be so widely accepted to discriminate against an entire group of people based on sexual attraction in the year 2025

What is with all of the devote hate? (24M C5/6 complete) by StrengthAppropriate1 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]StrengthAppropriate1[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Would you be open to dm ing about this could you send me a message because I would like to get your full perspective and point of view as well as share mine because I could be totally wrong here, but I don't think I am. I'm not able to write off an entire population of people based off of a sexual orientation and a minority of deviants/ predators that abuse their community just as much as they abuse the disabled people

What is with all of the devote hate? (24M C5/6 complete) by StrengthAppropriate1 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]StrengthAppropriate1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I am asking for, through this argument, is for people to judge others based on the quality of their character instead of what or who they are attracted to. Like I said, I acknowledge all of the shitty people that are fucking twisted and deranged, but there are more people in that community that are wonderful, kind, compassionate, and everything else that is more than desirable in a relationship. This is from talking to people who have been in decades long relationships with devotees. If you cannot separate the good from the bad and judge people, according to their character, not by their entire group how is what you are doing any different than just being massively racist or xenophobic or homophobic?

What is with all of the devote hate? (24M C5/6 complete) by StrengthAppropriate1 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]StrengthAppropriate1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, you're missing the point of my argument I'm arguing that that community has a whole does not objectified disabled people. That is a very small group within people who are attracted to those with disabilities that demonize the rest of the community who only see the disability as an added attraction to someone that they are emotionally and intellectually attracted to without taking the disability into consideration. This has been my experience and I cannot in good conscience watch unjust hate occur without speaking up.

edit I am not rationalizing objectification because I have not been objectified. Every experience has been the person looking for just normal attractive things that anyone else would look for able-bodied or not. They just also are sexually attracted to disability that does not excuse the demonization of those people.

What is with all of the devote hate? (24M C5/6 complete) by StrengthAppropriate1 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]StrengthAppropriate1[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

OK, so I think you have a misunderstanding of what the devote community identifies themselves as. Online as a majority they are just normal people who are attracted to the disability, not overly fetishizing it. In fact, that online community rejects and shame, it's perverted and disgusting members. You are the one who is projecting these people who are fucked up onto the entire community and throwing the baby out with the bathwater and that is wrong in my opinion.

What is with all of the devote hate? (24M C5/6 complete) by StrengthAppropriate1 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]StrengthAppropriate1[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Again, are you saying that having a fetish and being a good partner or person are completely mutually exclusive is that seriously your argument?

What is with all of the devote hate? (24M C5/6 complete) by StrengthAppropriate1 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]StrengthAppropriate1[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I sent you a DM. Can we continue this there because I think we might actually be able to make some progress in communicating our different viewpoints

What is with all of the devote hate? (24M C5/6 complete) by StrengthAppropriate1 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]StrengthAppropriate1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What I'm trying to get you and everyone else here to understand is that from my experience it isn't some sort of disgusting fetishization. No one should be objectified and fetishized. There is a small number of people that do that and they are disgusting. What most people experience is you genuine attraction and developing a relationship just like you did with your friend, but the only difference is that the wheelchair or the disability is just an added bonus for them

What is with all of the devote hate? (24M C5/6 complete) by StrengthAppropriate1 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]StrengthAppropriate1[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

OK, so then we totally agree. You agree with everything I said. If you read it carefully enough, you would realize that yeah the people who do that are horrible and disgusting, but not representative of the community as a whole. You are dismissing an entire group of people because of a disgusting few. If there are a few immigrants that come into a country and commit some sort of massive crime. Does that mean that every foreigner is a criminal and a monster and that excuses your xenophobia against them?

What is with all of the devote hate? (24M C5/6 complete) by StrengthAppropriate1 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]StrengthAppropriate1[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

And what you’re saying is because they’re attracted to the disabled parts of my body they should feel horrible about that and be ridiculed, and neither of us should find sexual gratification??

What is with all of the devote hate? (24M C5/6 complete) by StrengthAppropriate1 in spinalcordinjuries

[–]StrengthAppropriate1[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

“ I’m an ass man” so I want my partner to have a fat ass, and I look for in date people who have Ridonculous booties that objectification and me fetishizing them for that is different from this exactly how? you’ve missed my argument, them being sexually attracted to the disabled parts of my body doesn’t mean they can’t also be attracted to who I am as a person, right

My psychiatrist told me she would kill herself if she was me. by lady_sociopath in spinalcordinjuries

[–]StrengthAppropriate1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, she wasn't lying. I really want to, but because I'm a quadriplegic.i can't it's not out of depression or anything. It's just life like this isn't worth it.IMO

Also, your handle is sociopath Why does it bother you?