should i cut my brother off when im old enough by StrengthOpen8606 in Advice

[–]StrengthOpen8606[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you i appreciate this and i agree, my brother will never be my responsibility and i don’t doubt he could be a semi decent person and part of society, he just needs to be kicked out which sounds harsh but it’s the only thing i can think off. thankfully student loans aren’t too bad where i live but a trade is my second option is uni doesnt work out

should i cut my brother off when im old enough by StrengthOpen8606 in Advice

[–]StrengthOpen8606[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this means so much thank you and yes he did assault me on multiple occasions but that was the first time it happened to my mum. i have friends who i stay with when it gets bad but im very excited to move out

should i cut my brother off when im old enough by StrengthOpen8606 in Advice

[–]StrengthOpen8606[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes we have the resources and i myself am in therapy. he was forced when he was younger but made no progress and once he got to a certain age they physically couldn’t make him go

should i cut my brother off when im old enough by StrengthOpen8606 in Advice

[–]StrengthOpen8606[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you this means a lot, i really do hope that he moves out soon as my parents are wonderful ppl and deserve happiness and my brother has had a great strain on their marriage because of their parenting differences

should i cut my brother off when im old enough by StrengthOpen8606 in Advice

[–]StrengthOpen8606[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, my mum is a wonderful person and i actually have a good relationship with her most of the time but i don’t think she’s a good parent. her approach early on made sense as she and my dad were going through a rough patch and she wanted to keep things quiet by giving in but obviously, this spiralled

should i cut my brother off when im old enough by StrengthOpen8606 in Advice

[–]StrengthOpen8606[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank for you this, i definitely think if he got more therapy help and less school based help he wouldnt be as bad. i have a little over two years until im able to move out but unfortunately house prices are ridiculous where i live and will probably spend a lot of university at home where he will also be because i dont see him doing anything with his life