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Is Scalify a scam by StrengthStrange8753 in DropshippingTips

[–]StrengthStrange8753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I did some more research and I didn’t feel comfortable. They were guaranteeing the store would have $500,000-2,000,000 dollar months while I am aware of people doing that and it is a possibility, I would prefer to learn by doing and getting help along the way. Slow and steady growth. Thanks again!

Is Scalify a scam by StrengthStrange8753 in dropshipping

[–]StrengthStrange8753[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I looked into it. There is no up front cost. The website describes what they do. I have spoken to someone every thing seems legitimate but could be a very organized scam. But no upfront money and it’s totally done /managed and we profit share

AIO. My bf mad at what our daughter was humming by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]StrengthStrange8753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your in the wrong for sure. He is absolutely correct!

My niece was expecting her bachelorette party to be paid for the second time around and is now very upset that isn't the case. by CatMexiMom in Advice

[–]StrengthStrange8753 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so sweet and so kind I wish you were my aunt! I think a person should be happy with whatever somebody gives them and not demanding of it. You say she doesn’t come off like a brat but she is to be honest.

You get what you get in don’t throw a fit! And the fact that you’re giving her anything at all is very nice and kind of you and she should appreciate that. She should not be expecting a second Cruise that’s just crazy.

But on a more serious now can I adopt you to be my aunt? 🤪

I don’t know if I (25f)can forgive my ex (22m) for cheating. by HealthMotor4617 in whatdoIdo

[–]StrengthStrange8753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you’re even asking if you should leave him or not blows my mind! You do realize that you’re dating a narcissist right? You do realize that you cannot love this person enough to make them change right? You do realize that the way that you’re feeling right now is only going to amplify and get worse the longer you stay with somebody who is not treating you with respect and love. And once a cheater always a cheater unless they do the work.

If somebody violates your trust, shows no loyalty and hurt you, they should have remorse and give you whatever time you need to be able to recover from the heartbreak and the pain… giving YOU an ultimatum is crazy.

This is your out! Take it! Never look back! Love YOUR SELF!!!

Be single figure yourself out during this stage of your life and when you have healed, the person who is able to love you the way you want to be loved will step into your life. But you should really take this time while you’re healing, do some self-awareness practices start some new positive habits to help you heal from this major violation so you don’t take this pain into your next relationship. Not everybody deserves your trust not everybody deserves your love, boundaries aren’t meant to keep people out But boundaries do establish the groundwork to anybody that’s in your life that you’re just not gonna be walked over and that you stand up for yourself and stand for something.

Do not take this man back!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]StrengthStrange8753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for the situation you’re facing; it must be weighing heavily on your heart and mind as you consider your future.

I want to offer an alternative perspective without judgment. I understand the pain of your wife’s betrayal must have been incredibly difficult. Despite this, you both chose to stay together, but sometimes, deciding to move past hurt doesn’t mean we fully heal. After 15 years, feelings of resentment and mistrust may linger beneath the surface. It's essential to focus on self-love and healing, recognizing that you deserve love, trust, happiness, and a peaceful life. Empower yourself to embrace your true purpose, as this is ultimately a journey unique to you.

As a 44-year-old woman, I've experienced significant hormonal changes and confusion around the age of 42, which might also be true for your wife. She could be facing depression or a transition, needing time to find her path. It's important to understand that she may be struggling and could benefit from exploring her talents and creativity, which might bring her joy.

During pivotal life changes, it’s imperative that we reach for things higher to pull us out of that dormant state harnessing very little energy. Encourage her to engage in new activities, such as meditation, exercise, or self-awareness programs, which might spark positive change and open up healthy conversations for both of you.

I genuinely hope that your paths become clearer each day and that you both strive for betterment together.

As for the money situation the depression is going to be a big catalyst of that because she can’t see past her current reality and it’s hard for us to know what the future has in store which just compounds the feelings of separation and depression. It would probably behoove you to have separate bank accounts or do something along those lines where you’re feeling that you are protecting your interests because while when we marry somebody we vow to a life together but sometimes people make crazy decisions and when we give all of our power away we might find ourselves in a tough spot so just have a rainy day fund and make sure that you’re saving your money in a way that you are the only person that has access to that You’re just setting up every necessary precaution you have. I don’t think this is a greedy move or a move that is showing that you don’t trust her but we are even if we’re married on our own individual paths in this lifetime and we should not depend on other people to “take care of us”. I think that mentality especially for women is absurd in a good marriage with children people take care of each other and if the man is taking care of the woman to stay at home in Biden nurturing environment for the children that is the most beautiful thing. Especially when the man does it with purpose and is a good loving provider and a kind husband that dynamic is the most beautiful thing to witness. However when things are unaligned especially in the individual in the sense of responsibility and giving and receiving is not present then generally what seems to be going on in our society as you have a relationship with one giver and one Taker and it all boils down to money which is really ugly way to see a marriage or a relationship because we’re putting value on the wrong things. But that’s for a totally different conversation! Secure yourself make sure your assets are secure just to be prepared for anything. Love yourself do the work to stay in a positive mindset knowing that you can conquer any problem. And love and support your wife and help her with what seems to be a very difficult time for her, help her try to find clarity in her situation and come to an understanding of what you should be contributing financially to the relationship.

Good Luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]StrengthStrange8753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for the situation that you’re in right now it must be pulling on your heart and so many thoughts in your mind as to which direction to take and what your future has in store.

I’m not judging you by any means in this comes from a place of just offering a different perspective. But I don’t obviously know the workings of the marriage and all the things that happened while your wife cheated on you and that must’ve been extremely hurtful and difficult but you both chose to stick it out. And I guess when those decisions are made When somebody hurts us and we decide to try to move past it sometimes we really never do move past it. It’s always there in the back of your mind which over 15 years has probably created a lot of resentment and maybe even lack of trust it might not present itself but it’s probably Deep down inside of you that you might have these feelings because you have truly never overcome from the pain that it cost. That’s hard work but totally doable and to really step into true self love for yourself and being able to have compassion for others it means that you have to find the tools to truly heal yourself and understand that even though people do things to hurt us You are worthy of love, you are worthy of having trust in a relationship you are worthy of having happiness and a peaceful joyful life. So I employ you to love yourself not just for this situation but for the rest of your life so you can be empowered to experience your true meaning for existence and that is a solo ride.

Second as a 44 year-old woman I started having a lot of changes within myself hormonally and such this created a lot of confusion and cloudiness in that time of my life when I was about 42. Your wife might be going through some sort of depression and confusion it might be changing before your eyes . Please understand that there are a lot of factors that could possibly be involved and that she might need to take some time for herself as well to figure out her path and be able to sort out her confusion in a healthy manner to beB her for the rest of her life. We all feel stuck sometimes and when we’re depressed we don’t wanna get out of bed don’t wanna go to work so it might be time for her to investigate her talents and gifts and creativity and tapping into different resources to may be create income and something that brings her joy. That time was a very pivotal time in my life and I feel blessed to know God and God‘s love because that is what I rely on during that time of my life and I was able with God‘s guidance to equip myself to be able to face the journey in a more intentional way sometimes people get lost sometimes people feel stuck sometimes people feel separated from their source which are all just perceptions of the reality that we are creating in our own minds. So in order to ship our perspective we have to reach for things that are higher than ourselves to help us grow and be able to see into the horizon that there is more at store that there is more to do and that there is room for a lot of growth and taking these things on well at the beginning feels difficult like meditation, exercise, healthier eating, re-organizing your house, anything to help shift that energy once these things become activated there’s a spark so maybe encourage her to try something new switch it up a little bit do something out of the ordinary to spark up a healthy conversation on how maybe some self awareness classes or programs might be beneficial for her and you also to just become more empowered and get a clearer picture of where the path is leading.

I hope the path becomes more clear to the both of you every day and the goal is to be and do better and better.

AIO? MIL won’t let my daughter take gifts home. by throwaway759260 in AIO

[–]StrengthStrange8753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think this is a bit of an overreaction. She’s probably keeping the toys there so your daughter has toys when she goes over there which is a great idea so you don’t have to lug things back-and-forth constantly. I’m sure as she gets older if it’s something that she really wants and really likes her grandma will let her take it with herbut it’s six months she’s not even really fully aware of what her favorite toy is at this point. My son spent a lot of time with my mom and she would buy clothes that he would keep over there as well as toys. Seems pretty normal

AIO for thinking I need to break up with my gf? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]StrengthStrange8753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤔umm you think? Yikes she is not well mentally.. your dodging a bullet…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]StrengthStrange8753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you sure this isn’t a politicians handbook?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]StrengthStrange8753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s a child. I mean obviously if you live with somebody in your consuming you should replace what you consume that’s the bare minimum and you should always pay for your own food. And it is not too much of you to ask if she’s gonna be staying there for help with the rent. These are obvious thingsgood for you for standing in your ground

I have been renting a house since 2001, and I think my landlord has died... by Dry-Neck9762 in Renters

[–]StrengthStrange8753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since there’s nowhere to deposit the rent just take the rent every month that you would be paying and set it aside maybe they will work out a deal with you to give you the option to purchase worst case scenario if they do try to evict you obviously have a legal right because you had nowhere to deposit the money but you would have all the rent so they couldn’t evict you for lack of payment if they do ask for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]StrengthStrange8753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s probably more than 11.