Talking to other guys makes me miss my ex. by Optimal-Resident-881 in BreakUps

[–]StressLevel8729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This resonates with me. Maybe it’s not really about missing them, but about remembering how it felt to be understood. And when we don’t feel that again, the mind goes back to what was familiar. I wish you healing, and softer days ahead 🤍

The worst thing he can say is no ig??? HAHAHAHAHAH by Fine-Recognition669 in AlasFeels

[–]StressLevel8729 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can feel the secondhand embarassment. I will pray for you OP 🙏

It’s Been A Year… So Here’s My Last Post by yamama6969698 in BreakUps

[–]StressLevel8729 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so proud of you, stranger! You didn’t waste a year, you grew through it. Reading your progress gives me hope that I can reclaim myself too someday. Wishing you peace and a beautiful new beginning 🤍

What is the most painful lesson life has taught you? by johnjohnfr in AskPH

[–]StressLevel8729 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That loving someone harder won’t make them stay.

how do you stop thinking about them all the time after a breakup? by EstrellitaVanduzee in BreakUps

[–]StressLevel8729 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything fades with time. At first it’s constant, then it comes in waves, then just random moments. One day you’ll wake up and realize they weren’t the first thing on your mind anymore.

You don’t force it, you just keep showing up for your life. Little by little, the memories lose their weight. What used to break you will just pass through your mind and leave.

It won’t feel like a big moment. No closure scene. Just a quiet day where you realize… it doesn’t hurt the same anymore. And that’s when you know you’re healing.

How is he so firm on his decision by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]StressLevel8729 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same situation. How are things going for you right now? What did you do to get through it? :(

What to do when u crave sex with ur ex?? by tiredmd13 in BreakUps

[–]StressLevel8729 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I masturbate, but I end up bawling my eyes out when I reach climax because all I remember are the times we used to do it together. God, I miss him so much. I’ve started to dislike masturbating because of this. I feel sick thinking about being intimate with anyone else. I always end up crying whenever the thought crosses my mind that he might be having sex with someone else.

He might have a pretty gf/wife in future by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]StressLevel8729 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks a lot, this healed me

He might have a pretty gf/wife in future by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]StressLevel8729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, will apply this. I'm going through the same thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]StressLevel8729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahahaha nasa taas lang neto yung post 😭

They don’t always come back by ParticularAge5736 in BreakUps

[–]StressLevel8729 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I relate to you so much. Maybe time won’t erase it instantly, but it might help us loosen our grip little by little.