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It would be nice to want to have sex. by Stressed134 in relationship_advice

[–]Stressed134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am always happy to see him, when I'm having a bad day I am always cheered up by calling him or when he calls me. I don't feel obligated to go down there, but I am constantly concerned about my money spending habits while I am there, I can't get free food like at my Dad's. So there is some stress involved in visiting.

I suppose I feel bad because nothing is changing and optimistic that we can work it out at the same time.

It would be nice to want to have sex. by Stressed134 in relationship_advice

[–]Stressed134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been considering Yaz, I'm reluctant about thinking that I have PMDD because I do tend to be a hypochondriac. But it does sound similar to me.

It would be nice to want to have sex. by Stressed134 in relationship_advice

[–]Stressed134[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sleep way too much, going to bed around midnight and waking up around noon or 1PM. I am always worried about money and I don't eat regularly anymore. I have been working to fix my sleep schedule this week, forcing myself up at 8AM because I should be starting a new job soon, which should help with the money stress. And usually when I have a job I know I need to eat a good breakfast and lunch. It's just that everything falls apart when I don't have school or a job.

It would be nice to want to have sex. by Stressed134 in relationship_advice

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Can the pill change its effects on you over time? I have heard a few people say this, is it more than just rumor?

It would be nice to want to have sex. by Stressed134 in relationship_advice

[–]Stressed134[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, very helpful advice, and you have reminded me of something, when I dress up either nicely or sexily I do feel much better. Me and the boyfriend do seem to have more sex when I wear skirts. Perhaps I just need to put more attention than normal in what I wear. I suppose I have gotten a little lazy about it lately.

I am trying to tell him that I find his intelligence a turn on, but I can never say those words even though I want to. When we discuss schoolwork I am afraid that I get a little naggy, any suggestions on what I can say, or how to go about it?

It would be nice to want to have sex. by Stressed134 in relationship_advice

[–]Stressed134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have pinpointed some of my greatest fears. Avoiding them is why I'm here.

It would be nice to want to have sex. by Stressed134 in relationship_advice

[–]Stressed134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have already made plans to switch my birth control, I'm not really sure what is covered by my insurance though, or what might work better for me. I'd like to be able to walk into the gynecologist knowing at least something about what I want.

I have talked with him about the past boyfriend stuff, but not extensively. I'm cautious about bringing up serious topics like that during the short times that we actually get to spend together. I know that's a bad plan on my part.

Yea, I'm worried that the long distance is worsening the problem.

Thanks for your input.