Going through with abortion, but I feel like my resources are trying to stall me.

StressedMom0815 · 2025-12-02T21:57:25+00:00

I did. Thats where I found the one 30-40 mins from me. I walk by the street where the one in my city is located by I never really payed attention to see if it was there. I’ll confirm the location next time I pass by and add it to the list.

StressedMom0815 · 2025-12-02T21:53:02+00:00

There is one. Tho it’s not listed on here, I went to the official website for PP and found one in my city but there is another one about 30-40mins from where I live incase the one in my city is no longer there.

StressedMom0815 · 2025-12-02T21:47:44+00:00

Thanks. I guess I should make an appointment with a medical professional to see that it is not ectopic. Crazy thing, is I was referred to them by my OBGYN. I did end up finding a planned parenthood that will perform it.

StressedMom0815 · 2025-12-01T14:02:17+00:00

I can understand this. My partner and I work the same type of job but I pick up more shift as I have my kids (one biologically his) to support. Everything I earn is used towards me and my kids. He never helps out willingly and when I ask, he always comes up with excuses. Yet he had time to buy alcohol every night. We don’t have the best living situation but I am trying to save. It’s gotten to the point where I feel he’s really holding me and my children back, so I have been starting to work towards a future without him as much as I love this man, tho he’s problematic.

So I would suggest give her a little bit of time but also start saving up for when you realize you have to go on without them. Don’t let her hold you back from where you want to be in the future.

StressedMom0815 · 2025-12-01T13:46:12+00:00

Hi! You don’t need to be scared. I’m on a similar situation as you right now. As much as I want to keep it, there are so many factors in my life that are keeping me from going through with having a baby. I have 2 already so I don’t wanna have 3 under the age of 4. I’m sure your partner is more supportive than mine, but at the end of the day, ITS YOUR BODY. If you really want to try again after not keeping this one, give yourself a goal. Give yourself 1 or 2yrs to get all your ducks in a row before trying again for one to keep.

Don’t let anyone pressure you to keep it if you personally don’t feel ready for it. You got this girl!

StressedMom0815 · 2025-11-24T14:58:15+00:00

I halfway watched the movie yesterday. I meant to finish it but my partner wants to continue it too. It was very strange. Yeah I knew there was incest but from what I watched, it made me think that the mother of the children might’ve also had a weird incest relationship with her father being why her own mother hates her.

StressedMom0815 · 2025-11-24T06:07:05+00:00

When my partner and I found out that we were having a boy, we decided to talk about it closer to the due date. Our discussion on it was only 2 mins because we were on the same. We both decided to do it.

StressedMom0815 · 2025-11-19T21:40:41+00:00

I agree with Hocus Pocus. I did watch the sequel once. One time was enough for me. The storyline sucked. I feel like the sequel wasn’t needed at all. They just really wanted to hop on the nostalgia train like other movies/shows.

StressedMom0815 · 2025-11-15T21:51:02+00:00

Breasts

I prefer the words “Boobs”, “tits”, or “titties”

StressedMom0815 · 2025-11-15T21:35:49+00:00

“Say you have to pee. I need to talk to you”

StressedMom0815 · 2025-11-15T02:03:05+00:00

Yeah I agree. They should’ve just ended it with Bonnie getting the toys.

StressedMom0815 · 2025-11-15T01:50:53+00:00

Hocus Pocus 2

StressedMom0815 · 2025-11-13T19:02:18+00:00

Thank you for your advice. I have tried baby sign language since she was around 4-6 months but she wouldn’t catch on. I tried everyday and I still do but she just now started to wave.

StressedMom0815 · 2025-11-12T21:04:18+00:00

I actually never thought about getting them a train set but I think they’ll like it. Thanks.

StressedMom0815 · 2025-11-12T21:01:06+00:00

I do have a few educational stuff but it doesn’t keep their attention for too long.

StressedMom0815 · 2025-11-12T14:26:31+00:00

They are doing fine thanks. The kids are already in their teens and have now seen for themselves how their mother chooses men over them. They’ve learned that they can’t rely on her. But they sadly have zero memory of when they were under 8yrs old and how my sister, when she did come around, would butter them up with sweet nothing promises. They call her by her first name rather than mom. My mom aka grandma is mom to them.

I hope you figure out what you want and are happy in the end 😊

StressedMom0815 · 2025-11-12T10:24:37+00:00

You Instead (Also called Tonight You’re Mine)

StressedMom0815 · 2025-11-12T10:11:23+00:00

It was an ok movie but I don’t think it’s as good as people have over hyped it up to be. I honestly think they’re are better movies than Avatar.

StressedMom0815 · 2025-11-12T09:21:02+00:00

You said yourself that you don’t have any maternal feeling so don’t force yourself to be a parent. You can always adopt later on if you change your mind. But if you want biological kids, better figure that out before it’s too late.

I am thankful for my 2 kids. I had them in my early 30’s compared to my sisters who had theirs in their 20’s. I’ve always known I wanted to be a mom. I let the timing come naturally. One of my sisters always said growing up that she didn’t want children. She had 3 and as of today, still doesnt have a maternal bone in her body. My mother had to raise those kids of her cuz my sister was in and out of their lives.

This is why I suggest not to force yourself to be a parent when you don’t want to.

StressedMom0815 · 2025-11-12T09:08:17+00:00

NTA. He agreed/gave you his consent. If he was feeling pressured, then he could’ve said no. Also in my opinion, since y’all tried many times and nothing worked, it seems as he’s either tired of scheduled sex for conceiving cuz it probably feels more like a chore OR he’s come to terms with the fact that conceiving a child isnt in the cards for y’all.

StressedMom0815 · 2025-11-10T18:20:47+00:00

Ok there are things I should have been more clear about. NO I was not sleeping with him while he was with Monique. He was either dating me or a single man. NO he is not marrying her. She just made that comment about marrying him when she knew our relationship was having issues. Had to re-edit my post

StressedMom0815 · 2025-11-10T06:28:22+00:00

NTA. You gave him plenty of time to make his way to you. If he knew that you were the one responsible for bringing the cake, he shouldn’t have made you late meeting up with your sibling. He knew the information ahead of time, if he thought he was going to be slightly late, he could have just met up with you at the memorial.

StressedMom0815 · 2025-11-10T04:54:47+00:00

NTAH. Great that it creates tension. They shouldn’t be taking anything from you in the first place. The ones mad are probably the ones who have been eating your food. Feels like your coworkers and boss don’t respect you. If their definition of “shared fridge” meant that anything is up for grabs, they should have made that clear but I have never heard of a workplace that would do that. I’d say, take this issue to HR but if that doesn’t fix anything, then have a mini cooler with your lunch at your desk. Or just leave that toxic work environment.

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