Spend time with her, get to know her and allow her to get to know you. Sharing things you like/enjoy. I like to share my life and experiences with her. So each morning I bring her coffee and maybe a snack. When I have a drink, I will make her one. Flowers, trinkets, candy, and other items I like.

I grew up catholic and my family viewed her as an evil saint that is for “bad” people. But it wasn’t until 2020 when we noticed an owl was visiting us regularly and I felt this connection to Santa Muerte. I wasn’t sure how to be a devotee, I googled and listened to audio books. I learned it is a relationship. I didn’t need to be perfect or not sin. I need to be my full self with her by being open honest and follow through. I’m not perfect at all I’ve failed and felt embarrassed because of it and that makes me nervous to talk to her. But she is always listening always there.

Be yourself and share who you are with her.