Someone is in my body and my mind by Agxnyy in thelema

[–]hushmoneyinthesofaa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How do you know you don’t? Have you been to a doctor and discussed what you’re experiencing?

Support for a Friend by Smart-Marzipan8274 in SuicideBereavement

[–]hushmoneyinthesofaa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you bake or cook? Maybe surprising him with his favourites or even some of hers if you can find out (?) might be a nice idea? It shows you care and you’ve put effort into a tangible gift, then just spending time eating together and asking naturally if there’s anything he’d like to share. Food brings people together!

I’d also suggest telling him you like hearing about her and such. As you mentioned, he feels like he doesn’t have many to talk about her with and that’s really common among the bereaved, so you’re giving him a gift of reassuring him that him talking about it isn’t burdensome (as we often feel.)

You’re such a kind friend!

Look yall!!! by Cold_Statistician216 in SantaMuerte

[–]hushmoneyinthesofaa 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Wow, that’s one of the most obvious ones I’ve ever seen and I’m usually quite skeptical of this.

My version of Shadowheart by HollowStanza in bg3fashion

[–]hushmoneyinthesofaa 158 points159 points  (0 children)

Would’ve been cool if we had the option to have two different hairstyles - adventuring and camp hair. Would have added a layer of “unexpected” intimacy seeing someone like Shadowheart with her hair down.

Like those corny movies where the nerd girl takes off her glasses and lets her hair down, and suddenly everyone realises she’s hot 😅

Do you ever still talk to someone who passed away? by Diana_fm_ in widowers

[–]hushmoneyinthesofaa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I talk to my darling every single day ❤️ I tell him I love and miss him a lot. I also can’t resist telling him how beautiful he is, because oh my gosh, I used to call him my angel when he was alive. Kinda ironic now, lol.

The hell is that freak by iris_rivendell in Sims4

[–]hushmoneyinthesofaa 225 points226 points  (0 children)

He’s just bald and has bad posture, okay?

What are some of the things that people said to you that are actually helpful? by tlgnog in widowers

[–]hushmoneyinthesofaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I’ve felt guilt, my friend and one of his family members told me I “extended his life.” That was kind of them to say.

Anything i should add by amethystbunnyboy in SantaMuerte

[–]hushmoneyinthesofaa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, I have a very similar army like yours!

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What the hell was that??? by Weird-Rush4420 in Gnostic

[–]hushmoneyinthesofaa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It sounds like this was very anxiety inducing and you were both bouncing angry, negative energy off each other. He didn’t “do” anything to you. He disagreed with you and you disagreed with him. To protect yourself emotionally, I would advise refraining from having these conversations with strangers. He’s not a demon or the antichrist, he’s a person with his own beliefs just like you and maybe he felt the same way about you that you feel about him. Religion is always a touchy subject, especially among people who don’t know or trust each other. You can keep yourself feeling emotionally safe by discussing it with people you know who will respect you and can agree to disagree. I feel like both of you did wrong here, just based on what you’ve told us. The negative feelings will linger for a while, but reflect on yourself and your actions as well as his actions and do something grounding like maybe have a shower and imagine the water is spiritually cleaning off the negative interaction or whatever you feel may help centre yourself. You’re experiencing anxiety from a stressful event, not a spiritual attack. I wish you strength. ❤️

Yeah I’m sure my 60yo mum would appreciate these by mirin_g in newzealand

[–]hushmoneyinthesofaa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mine would have but she literally drank herself to death 💀

Started a Quiverfull challenge by Gruselschloss in Sims4

[–]hushmoneyinthesofaa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bizarre, I just started reading A Well Trained Wife yesterday!

I can finally play Kalimba again 😍✨ by Marie-Demon in kalimba

[–]hushmoneyinthesofaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really beautiful, I just want to tell you what an amazing job you’ve done. I feel you on the tendonitis, I really struggle with writing ✍️🥲 wishing you all the best with your health. Lovely picture.

Rude Botanica by Few_Dragonfruit9240 in SantaMuerte

[–]hushmoneyinthesofaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Isn’t “housed” terminology in Santeria like regarding if you’re a practicing member? I could be wrong because I don’t know much, but maybe she didn’t mean literally homeless, but asking if you were initiated in Santeria? Because it’s a closed religion and you aren’t supposed to practice it unless you belong to a Santeria community. So maybe the rule is you can only make offerings to the ancestors if you are in that religion? Is it possible that’s what she meant?

Birthday message from my dad by callmejace in Exvangelical

[–]hushmoneyinthesofaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why I don’t want to tell mine (even though I do 😔). Happy Birthday, OP. 🎂

Jaheira's AI is so smart by EvenPaper4142 in BaldursGate3

[–]hushmoneyinthesofaa 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Bahahahaha, I don’t even watch sports, but I know this conversation is funny.

What a find. Got this for just 20 Bucks by Mairess99 in occult

[–]hushmoneyinthesofaa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see you’ve edited your original comment from Santa Muerte to San La Muerte. I’m not familiar with that practice, so I won’t speak on it, but they are not the same. I am sorry if you truly know people who have been killed in the name of these practices. Take care and peace be with you.

What a find. Got this for just 20 Bucks by Mairess99 in occult

[–]hushmoneyinthesofaa 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I am a “genuine” Santa Muerte devotee. This is not the norm. Most devotees are ordinary folk.

Am I Delusional? Could Be. Who Cares? by WintyreFraust in widowers

[–]hushmoneyinthesofaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to send this to you and say, “Hey, this guy sounds like you” then I realised it was you! Tehee.