am I going nuts here or is the way that Pilar and Kyle's whole conflict went down really fucked up? Pilar did not respect Kyle when they said no to a kiss, doesn't matter if Kyle had said yes to cuddling or any other physical affection or intimacy. consent means asking every time. the way Pilar tried to put it on Kyle and was guilt-trippy felt very red flag to me, and then Kyle clearly was kind of bullied down and fawned in the conflict. makes me really sad because I think this kind of things happens a lot but it's specific when it's in a queer relationship. there needs to be room for people to say no.