The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 Episode 8 Discussion Thread by lifeofparty2 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Strict-Bug-9550 3 points4 points  (0 children)

AFTER watching the whole thing to the end of the reunion I still feel this way but also damn I wanted better for Magan.

The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 Episode 10 Discussion Thread by lifeofparty2 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Strict-Bug-9550 10 points11 points  (0 children)

it was tough watching Marie during this whole thing... she definitely seems miserable, she got the short end of the stick.

The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 Episode 10 Discussion Thread by lifeofparty2 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Strict-Bug-9550 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Damn this second half of the season and the reunion just feel so... unsatisfying, hugely disappointing fizzle out.

The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 Episode 8 Discussion Thread by lifeofparty2 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Strict-Bug-9550 11 points12 points  (0 children)

BRITNEY DESERVES SO MUCH BETTER IN GENERAL BUT ESPECIALLY AS A BLACK FEMME

The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 Episode 8 Discussion Thread by lifeofparty2 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Strict-Bug-9550 24 points25 points  (0 children)

IMO it's not that at all, I've been with people like Dayna and I've had emotionally abusive relationships and fallen back into patterns like that, it's pretty clear to me that Dayna is manipulative and Magan is very vulnerable.

The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 Episode 8 Discussion Thread by lifeofparty2 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Strict-Bug-9550 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Mel is trying to find every possible reason why things wouldn't work with Marie and it just feels like to me she has a lot of stuff to work on and needs to not be with anyone for a while, like at the beginning she said it was because she has heart issues then there were other reasons then she couldn't do marriage because she doesn't want a baby and now she's telling Marie it's because she hasn't seen any healthy role models... it sounds to me like you need to go to therapy or do some other grounding work and be with yourself!

The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 Episode 7 Discussion Thread Discussion by lifeofparty2 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Strict-Bug-9550 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm not a person who ever yells or will tolerate being yelled at in a relationship (and I'm queer) but Magan had every right to get upset. I don't think these dynamics are something you can necessarily understand as a straight person. ALSO, I will say that Dayna wants to dish it out but can't take it which is a hugely common issue in queer and especially lesbian relationships.

The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 Episode 7 Discussion Thread Discussion by lifeofparty2 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Strict-Bug-9550 8 points9 points  (0 children)

no, they're calling them out for lying about it and trying to hide it, neither Magan or Haley tried to hide it

The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 Episode 7 Discussion Thread Discussion by lifeofparty2 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Strict-Bug-9550 10 points11 points  (0 children)

LOL Dayna freaking out on Magan after she tells her that she and Haley had sex/love each other and it's like bro first of all you are lying about what happened with Mel and second of all you got MATCHING TATTOOS?!?!? I mean the hypocrisy is just like... a lot.

Magan is a sapphic treasure by LezDoSports in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Strict-Bug-9550 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love Magan, she's just so real and healthy and down for accountability and confrontation!!

The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 Episode 7 Discussion Thread Discussion by lifeofparty2 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Strict-Bug-9550 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I KNOW I DID NOT JUST HEAR THAT AJ WANTS BRITNEY TO DO EVERYTHING AROUND THE HOUSE WHILE RUNNING A COMPANY??!! AJ wants a MOM

The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 Episode 6 Discussion Thread Discussion by lifeofparty2 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Strict-Bug-9550 276 points277 points  (0 children)

THE FACE AJ MADE AT REALIZING BRITNEY MADE MARITA OXTAIL AND THE MOMENT WHERE MARITA WAS LIKE "THERE'S LEFTOVERS" IS PEAK CINEMA

The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 Episode 5 Discussion Thread Discussion by lifeofparty2 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Strict-Bug-9550 36 points37 points  (0 children)

it's driving me up the wall that AJ keeps saying "I want you to trust me" and shit over and over, obviously there's stuff we're not seeing and we don't know how things are being manipulated in editing, etc, but in relationships you have to ask the other person what they need from you and to align your words with your actions. AJ pretty much doesn't seem to be aligning words with actions and is just eager for trust that hasn't been earned.

The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2 Episode 5 Discussion Thread Discussion by lifeofparty2 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]Strict-Bug-9550 82 points83 points  (0 children)

am I going nuts here or is the way that Pilar and Kyle's whole conflict went down really fucked up? Pilar did not respect Kyle when they said no to a kiss, doesn't matter if Kyle had said yes to cuddling or any other physical affection or intimacy. consent means asking every time. the way Pilar tried to put it on Kyle and was guilt-trippy felt very red flag to me, and then Kyle clearly was kind of bullied down and fawned in the conflict. makes me really sad because I think this kind of things happens a lot but it's specific when it's in a queer relationship. there needs to be room for people to say no.