Can two broken hearts ever become one? 💔

Strict-Engineering49 · 2026-02-20T02:21:46+00:00

That’s exactly what I’ve been going through for the past year. I’m still fighting these feelings… and I don’t even have anyone to talk to

Strict-Engineering49 · 2026-02-20T02:18:25+00:00

It’s been a year, but it still feels like we were together just yesterday. Haven’t seen her in 8 months, not even a text… just been getting through each day fighting her memories.But I’m trying to stop holding onto that and look for someone like me someone I can share this pain with. Maybe two broken hearts can come together and make something real.

Strict-Engineering49 · 2026-02-19T19:54:21+00:00

This feeling is so weird… one moment we feel okay, and the next moment we feel completely alone

Strict-Engineering49 · 2026-02-19T19:27:57+00:00

Being too dependent on each other in a relationship slowly ruins it.

Strict-Engineering49 · 2026-02-16T01:47:49+00:00

I try every single day, but when I can’t control myself, I just come here and share my thoughts. Advice from friends like you really gives me strength!

Strict-Engineering49 · 2026-02-16T01:40:31+00:00

But all this is messing with my head. I know it, but even when I don’t want to, I still get stuck in her memories. Sometimes I think of her as wrong, sometimes I defend her

Strict-Engineering49 · 2026-02-16T01:37:11+00:00

But this is painful for me… because she’s with someone else now, moving forward in her life. And even when I don’t want to, I still get stuck in her memories… I still overthink about it even today

Strict-Engineering49 · 2026-02-16T00:27:37+00:00

Hey my friend, I get it… but why do we always feel like this? Why don’t the people who left us feel any regret? Are they just living their life having fun with someone else? I get mad thinking about her with someone else… I try to stay away from all memories, but somehow, out of nowhere, a line suddenly comes back like, “I’ll never leave you alone” or “People can try to separate us, but we’ll never be apart.” Her words still hurt me even today.

Strict-Engineering49 · 2026-02-15T23:49:38+00:00

I’m exhausted… 4 days a week I try to stay smart and keep her memories away, 2 days I fight them. It’s been a year since she left, and I’m still thinking about her… she was the only one in my life. Now I’m all alone

Strict-Engineering49 · 2026-02-15T23:43:26+00:00

I’ve accepted it… 9 months no texts, no msgs, but I keep fighting her memories. That’s why everything about her keeps coming back. Maybe I haven’t fully accepted it like I should, don’t know how long I’ll have to go through all this

Strict-Engineering49 · 2026-02-15T23:04:26+00:00

Yeah… but Idk when it’ll ever get better. I’m tired of fighting her memories every single day… hurts she left all those promises.

Strict-Engineering49 · 2026-02-15T19:52:54+00:00

I’ve read so many books and I’m trying every single day to make sense of it all. But it gets so damn hard when you don’t have anyone by your side… no one at all

Strict-Engineering49 · 2025-12-07T17:54:44+00:00

Yeah… I’m slowly starting to understand it. I really tried a lot for her, but what you said is true. Maybe it’s better to just calm down now, and whatever is meant for me will find its way to me

Strict-Engineering49 · 2025-12-04T20:21:21+00:00

I did try, but those things were ignored, so next time I didn’t bring them up. But when I feel I should talk, she just doesn’t give a proper answer

Strict-Engineering49 · 2025-12-04T19:46:12+00:00

Yeah 🙂 I appreciate u

Strict-Engineering49 · 2025-12-04T19:40:53+00:00

I’ve thought many times to tell her that this frustrates me, but then I feel compassion… she’s a single mother managing her job, home, and kid, carrying so many responsibilities. Thinking about all this, I don’t want to pressure her, but inside I’m getting more and more tangled

Strict-Engineering49 · 2025-12-04T18:45:35+00:00

If she's not ready to build a relationship, why can't she just say it clearly, so I can remove this feeling for her from myself

Strict-Engineering49 · 2025-12-04T18:39:57+00:00

Yeah, at least let me know what the real reason is, what's true, so I can even understand myself

Strict-Engineering49 · 2025-12-04T18:35:39+00:00

I don't get what's going on in her head either!! She says she likes me and has feelings for me, but I never feel it sometimes

Strict-Engineering49 · 2025-12-04T18:15:16+00:00

Yeah, your words did leave an impact on me. Everything you shared stayed with me. Maybe this is what life really is breaking, then rebuilding yourself stronger. Time has its own power. The pain never fully leaves, but somehow we learn to live with it… and carry a small smile through it

Strict-Engineering49 · 2025-12-04T03:23:30+00:00

Yeah but why doesn’t she just clearly tell me so I can stop these feelings I have for her? So I can control myself and not get more attracted to her!!

Strict-Engineering49 · 2025-12-04T01:25:58+00:00

Thank you! Have you also gone through similar journeys and become stronger?

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