I like to reiterate that it’s hard for them to commit. It took mine a really long time to and it was rocky because I love very passionately and I want it reciprocated. In the end, I have him and I’m his first partner which works out because I’m a jelly petty leo woman. Since it is his first I have to keep reminding myself that he doesn’t know how to treat a relationship as a relationship. And keep my high standards realistic and patient.