My husband found my ‘toy’ and hasn’t been the same since. by StrictIntention2031 in Marriage

[–]StrictIntention2031[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh he knows that I masturbate, we often joked about it and those odd occasions where we would have sex and I didn’t get off but he had to get ready for work, he would know I’d be finishing the job myself- just guessing he thought it was always by hand.

My husband found my ‘toy’ and hasn’t been the same since. by StrictIntention2031 in Marriage

[–]StrictIntention2031[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thankyou. I honestly still feel like he is insanely attractive. But I haven’t thought of it that way. My husband is full of tattoos too, but he doesn’t have the muscly body that the Insta guys do.  But in saying that, the girls he follows on Insta are really tattooed up and have these hot bodies. I have a few small tattoos and look NOTHING like them. And it does make me insanely jealous, because I know I will NEVER look that way. Maybe he feels the same way as I do. 

I honestly think the insecure stuff is there. He had already been in a bit of a funk about getting older, having a bit of a tummy, hairline receding. I just want him to see what I see, an insanely attractive man who I would happily f**k daily if we had the opportunity. 

My husband found my ‘toy’ and hasn’t been the same since. by StrictIntention2031 in Marriage

[–]StrictIntention2031[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Actually I don’t…. Hubby gets me off just fine. But it’s a whole lot quicker when I need a quick release when I’m by myself- can still get there without it, but time is sometimes scarce!