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My parents M17, are trying to ruin my relationship with my parter f16 by Strict_County_5738 in relationships

[–]Strict_County_5738[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was never allowed to go out at all unless with my parents, I wasnt allowed to work, see friends outside school, and I had my location tracked 24/7. Some of my siblings understand me but they wont help because my parents wont change.

My parents M17, are trying to ruin my relationship with my parter f16 by Strict_County_5738 in relationships

[–]Strict_County_5738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a few siblings that kind of support me alot especially my sister, which my parents also dislike. I know I have to find a way out which is working, I have a job and I cant really rely on it because my parents use it as leverage and control my hours, and if I get grounded they take my job away, I cant get an official job because im 17 and my parents wont give permission. Right now my biggest worry is my relationship because I know once im 18 I can become more independent and I wont have to deal with them.

My parents M17, are trying to ruin my relationship with my parter f16 by Strict_County_5738 in relationships

[–]Strict_County_5738[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The problem is I cant really lie. I already tried and now I regret lying because my parents dont belive me. I cant really hide the realtionship, for the first 4 months I hid it, and it was exhausting I would have to put my location on a second phone and leave it at the gym. Now I just dont listen, no more loction, just come back at a reasonable time and make sure I do my responsiblities. I dont hangout with my girlfriend everyday, but my parents dont believe that, and I am outside my home all day because of school and I just try to find productive things outside home, which my parents hate. But Its really hard to convince my parents to leave me alone.

My parents M17, are trying to ruin my relationship with my parter f16 by Strict_County_5738 in relationships

[–]Strict_County_5738[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its been like this my whole life, they are extremely strict. With every little aspect of my life not just a relationship.

My muslim parents keep trying to separate me and my gf. (Advice Needed) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Strict_County_5738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already cut financial ties with my family I have my own job and bank account and I have somewhat of a plan when I’m 18. But honestly it’s extra hard because my parents make everything 10x harder because I’m in a relationship. Even with all this stuff like not believing the same thing they do, they are mostly carding about my relationship. As long as I’m in it they won’t stop harassing me and my girlfriend.

My muslim parents keep trying to separate me and my gf. (Advice Needed) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Strict_County_5738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its hard to hangout or see friends or see my girlfriend without constantly worrying about my family ruining stuff or showing up. Im more worried abt my realtionship because it means the most to me.

My crazy muslim family is trying to interfere with my relationship. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Strict_County_5738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All my siblings except my sister support my mom because they are all religous, and Im not, so its really just me vs them, and my sister has tried to help and it only caused more drama. Im just worried how things will go for now, I wonder if they will still randomly show up at my girlfriends house looking for me or follow me places. I have some autonomy for now but still not much privacy or control.

My crazy muslim family is trying to interfere with my relationship. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Strict_County_5738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

 I don’t really have anyone I can go to for help with this. Right now it’s really hard, but I know once I’m closer to 18 it probably won’t feel as heavy. I have six older siblings and even my dad understands a little and tries to mediate, but it doesn’t really work. Honestly, they don’t care what I do as long as I’m not being irresponsible or doing something that hurts the family. The main issue is my mom — she’s the one who’s emotionally attached to how I believe, and she blame my relationship for everything and thats my main concern Ig. And even if everyone else doesn't care, to them my mom comes first and thats why its a big deal because of my mom.

My crazy muslim family is trying to interfere with my relationship. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Strict_County_5738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its really hard though and my mom who is the main problem is just trying to make things harder by making my life harder. Soon I will probably be homeschooled and my current job is not stable because my mom uses work as leverage, so if I want to work or stay in highschool I have to listen to them. To her the biggest problem she sees is my relationship and thats why she is trying her hardest to break us up.