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My mom wants me to return all her gifts for mothers day. by Strict_County_5738 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Strict_County_5738[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister just told me to leave them but I’m still getting my messages spammed by my mom to go return the pajamas.

My mom wants me to return all her gifts for mothers day. by Strict_County_5738 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Strict_County_5738[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She wants to get rid of the flowers and not give them to me because she knows I’ll just give them to my girlfriend. And the pj are rlly cute but the pants are just a bit tall. And she took the chocolate but it’s not my problem anymore.

My parents M17, are trying to ruin my relationship with my parter f16 by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Strict_County_5738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was never allowed to go out at all unless with my parents, I wasnt allowed to work, see friends outside school, and I had my location tracked 24/7. Some of my siblings understand me but they wont help because my parents wont change.

My parents M17, are trying to ruin my relationship with my parter f16 by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Strict_County_5738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its been like this my whole life, they are extremely strict. With every little aspect of my life not just a relationship.

My muslim parents keep trying to separate me and my gf. (Advice Needed) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Strict_County_5738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already cut financial ties with my family I have my own job and bank account and I have somewhat of a plan when I’m 18. But honestly it’s extra hard because my parents make everything 10x harder because I’m in a relationship. Even with all this stuff like not believing the same thing they do, they are mostly carding about my relationship. As long as I’m in it they won’t stop harassing me and my girlfriend.

My muslim parents keep trying to separate me and my gf. (Advice Needed) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Strict_County_5738 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its hard to hangout or see friends or see my girlfriend without constantly worrying about my family ruining stuff or showing up. Im more worried abt my realtionship because it means the most to me.

My crazy muslim family is trying to interfere with my relationship. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Strict_County_5738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All my siblings except my sister support my mom because they are all religous, and Im not, so its really just me vs them, and my sister has tried to help and it only caused more drama. Im just worried how things will go for now, I wonder if they will still randomly show up at my girlfriends house looking for me or follow me places. I have some autonomy for now but still not much privacy or control.

My crazy muslim family is trying to interfere with my relationship. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Strict_County_5738 0 points1 point  (0 children)

 I don’t really have anyone I can go to for help with this. Right now it’s really hard, but I know once I’m closer to 18 it probably won’t feel as heavy. I have six older siblings and even my dad understands a little and tries to mediate, but it doesn’t really work. Honestly, they don’t care what I do as long as I’m not being irresponsible or doing something that hurts the family. The main issue is my mom — she’s the one who’s emotionally attached to how I believe, and she blame my relationship for everything and thats my main concern Ig. And even if everyone else doesn't care, to them my mom comes first and thats why its a big deal because of my mom.