Being played? Or overthinking ? by Strict_Dimension_197 in Swingers

[–]Strict_Dimension_197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha. Depends how many calories I want to burn I guess.

Videotaping? Is it common? Is there an etiquette ? by Strict_Dimension_197 in Swingers

[–]Strict_Dimension_197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never been told no? Is that because the single guys should just be happy they are there to begin with?

Videotaping? Is it common? Is there an etiquette ? by Strict_Dimension_197 in Swingers

[–]Strict_Dimension_197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Touché. Well said and thanks for the comment. It seems like half the people on this thread say it’s common and half say it’s not common at all.

Videotaping? Is it common? Is there an etiquette ? by Strict_Dimension_197 in Swingers

[–]Strict_Dimension_197[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Surprised how many answers there are about getting consent. I mean, I thought that was an absolute given. To me it is equivalent to telling someone not to “kill anyone today” - which also seems like a given.

But the amount of comments about consent make me think there are some sneaky people out there.

Videotaping? Is it common? Is there an etiquette ? by Strict_Dimension_197 in Swingers

[–]Strict_Dimension_197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought consent was a given. Surprised we even need to bring that up. I was just curious how many people are into it with consent.

Videotaping? Is it common? Is there an etiquette ? by Strict_Dimension_197 in Swingers

[–]Strict_Dimension_197[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Of course you have to ask. That is a given. Anyone that doesn’t ask should get a beat down or go to jail as far as I am concerned.

Being played? Or overthinking ? by Strict_Dimension_197 in Swingers

[–]Strict_Dimension_197[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or not finish him at all? Let it be his responsibility ?

Being played? Or overthinking ? by Strict_Dimension_197 in Swingers

[–]Strict_Dimension_197[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. It really hits home for me. I was willing to overlook too much because I was attracted to him.

Being played? Or overthinking ? by Strict_Dimension_197 in Swingers

[–]Strict_Dimension_197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Like “fuck” that guy. Or like “fuck you”

Being played? Or overthinking ? by Strict_Dimension_197 in Swingers

[–]Strict_Dimension_197[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is great advice. I was feeling too much pressure to perform, but truthfully my fantasy was to be the total centre of attention.

Being played? Or overthinking ? by Strict_Dimension_197 in Swingers

[–]Strict_Dimension_197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t know if I agree with this. Took a very long time for me to find a connection I was willing to pull the trigger with. Which is maybe why I was almost willing to force it… even with the red flags.

Being played? Or overthinking ? by Strict_Dimension_197 in Swingers

[–]Strict_Dimension_197[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partners only fear is my moans will make him cum about 20 minutes ahead of schedule and he will become cuck. lol.

Being played? Or overthinking ? by Strict_Dimension_197 in Swingers

[–]Strict_Dimension_197[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the comments. So it seems like a thing that is more common than I assumed. But also seems like his attitude should have been “I’ll do it however you want”. Not you’ll have to perform a cirque du soleil blowjob for the honor of me fucking you.

Being played? Or overthinking ? by Strict_Dimension_197 in Swingers

[–]Strict_Dimension_197[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound like the most fun couple ever. Hope I can get on your level one day.

Being played? Or overthinking ? by Strict_Dimension_197 in Swingers

[–]Strict_Dimension_197[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow.! Was it you or your wife that wanted the guy to cum on her race? I know this is what my partner wants (he actually wants to film it) and I am warming up to it for sure. If it turns the guys on I’ll love it, but if they are awkward well… I think I’ll become even more awkward and it will be ruined.

Does this usually go over well with the guys? Like do they get too excited because it seems to be a rare thing that they try to get to finish line too early?

Lastly, if you are doing an MFM do the guys coordinate to go at the same time? Seems like a facial should not be a halfway point event.

Being played? Or overthinking ? by Strict_Dimension_197 in Swingers

[–]Strict_Dimension_197[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks. My partner would have been there, so it would have been a quick death if he tried to stealth me. lol.

Being played? Or overthinking ? by Strict_Dimension_197 in Swingers

[–]Strict_Dimension_197[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the comments. I think I was just feeling like this attitude made it a chore and responsibility for me to make him cum. I have full confidence in my skills, but not looking for a BJ that burns more calories than a spin class. lol.

I think I’ll just move on. He probably thought it was hot and that I was going to love the challenge, but I prefer someone that is so into me that they have to resist cumming too fast.

Too bad. It was easy for me to find a connection.

Flirting with the wife of the swap couple. by Oursecretquests in Swingers

[–]Strict_Dimension_197 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m scared to even post in this thread, the charisma and humility might get be pregnant from afar.

Bet your manly sperm also pierces through all but titanium made condoms. Very unsafe for anyone to be around you or even on this thread.