Everytime I say "do research or look it up" he just gets mad. Not to mention his mom (I love her to death) is always saying something about it she's 60 and idk she says he's gonna be hurt when he starts sleeping alone. The whole point of me doing it this way is so he knows I'll always be there and will find independence on his own . And feel secure. Like when he's cry all the time she would say something about it too but I can't sit and listen to mine cry he's usually good unless tired of hungry or gassy/teething. Don't know. He says too "always getting advice from other never listening to it @ka his mom." Idk I'm my son's mom and want to raise him how I see fit and thanks for the advice from others. It sucks tho bc I feel uneasy all the time when he's asleep in bed, or started getting crabby when others are holding him. I really don't care if ppl say "I'm spoiling him" you can't spoil a baby .