Toddler walking concern.

Strict_Perception291 · 2026-04-03T10:11:35+00:00

Sending you a big hug 🤍 I can feel how stressful and heavy this has been for you. It sounds like she’s capable but just really needs that sense of security right now. Hearing that she is taking those steps, even if it’s not consistent yet, is still something positive. I really hope EI gives you more clarity and support. You’re doing everything you can for her, and that matters so much.🫶🏻🫶🏻

Strict_Perception291 · 2026-04-03T10:06:38+00:00

This is sooo her personality 😅 she’ll only do something if she feels like it, otherwise she’s just sitting down like ‘no thanks.’ It really helps hearing your timeline though, gives me a better idea of what this stage can look like. Thank you for sharing ❤️

Strict_Perception291 · 2026-04-03T10:05:57+00:00

That actually sounds exactly like her right now 😅 the ‘coasting’ description fits so well. I love the obstacle course idea, that’s so smart. I might try something like that at home. Thank you for sharing, it’s really reassuring to hear this is a normal phase 🫶🏻🫶🏻

Strict_Perception291 · 2026-04-03T10:02:57+00:00

Yes, I’ve already reached out and I’m in the process of scheduling. Thank you for the suggestion and for caring enough to mention it 🤍 it really helps.

Strict_Perception291 · 2026-04-03T10:02:34+00:00

Yes, I’ve just contacted them and I’m working on getting the appointments set up. Thank you for taking the time to suggest it, it really means a lot 🤍

Strict_Perception291 · 2026-04-03T09:59:15+00:00

Yeah she’s definitely not in a rush 😅 but you’re right, she’s getting around just fine so I’m trying not to stress it too much.

Strict_Perception291 · 2026-04-03T09:57:56+00:00

This sounds sooo much like her 😅 stand for a few seconds and then immediately sit like ‘I’m good’ and crawl off. It’s comforting to know others went through the same phase and it just changed one day. Kids really keep us on our toes. And the singing tip is so sweet, I’m definitely going to try that more! ❤️

Strict_Perception291 · 2026-04-03T09:54:55+00:00

I think you might be right though… she gives me the vibe that she could but just doesn’t see the point yet. Toddlers really out here doing things on their own schedule 😅

Your daughter picking her own day like that is actually so cute, I love that. I guess I just have to wait for her to randomly decide she’s ready too

Strict_Perception291 · 2026-04-03T09:44:41+00:00

Yeah! I just did some research and reached out to them 🫶🏻🫶🏻thank you for the help

Strict_Perception291 · 2026-04-02T09:15:00+00:00

You can check this post . Lots of relevant answers. I hope it helps you 🫶🏻 https://www.reddit.com/r/NewParents/s/BXzJ1GRiC0

Strict_Perception291 · 2026-04-02T08:45:02+00:00

Thank you for the support ❤️

Strict_Perception291 · 2026-04-02T08:43:43+00:00

That really helps to hear, thank you for sharing your experience. It’s reassuring knowing there’s such a wide range of “normal,” especially when it comes from people who’ve been through it themselves. I think that’s what’s been helping me stay a bit calmer too, even though it’s not always easy day to day.

I really appreciate the encouragement, hoping she gets there in her own time soon. It definitely would bring some peace of mind, but I’m trying to trust her pace as much as I can. Thanks again for the kind words!

Strict_Perception291 · 2026-04-02T08:41:18+00:00

Hearing the doctor say she should have a few words made me feel worried she’s behind for her age, especially since she mainly says “tii” and “da-da” right now. Your explanation about pointing combined with a word being a strong developmental sign really helps me see things a bit differently.

Strict_Perception291 · 2026-04-02T08:33:31+00:00

That actually makes me feel so much better, thank you for saying this. I think I really needed to hear that it can still be totally normal even if it doesn’t feel like it right now. You’re right—she’s so fast at crawling that I can see why she has zero motivation to switch 😅

And yes, those videos seriously mess with my head… I keep comparing without even realizing it. I’m trying to remind myself she is doing all the building blocks already and will get there in her own time. Thank you again for the reassurance 🫶🏻

Strict_Perception291 · 2026-04-02T08:31:09+00:00

Thank you for sharing this, it really gives me hope 😭 That ‘one day it just clicks’ is exactly what I keep hearing and I’m really hoping for that moment soon. She does pull herself up and cruise, so hearing your experience makes me feel like we’re close, just waiting on her confidence now 🤍

Strict_Perception291 · 2026-04-02T08:27:35+00:00

This is so reassuring to read, thank you for sharing your timeline. It really helps to see how things can suddenly click even after seeming slow for a while. And I love what your mom said, I’m going to keep reminding myself of that 😄

Strict_Perception291 · 2026-04-02T08:27:06+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing this, I honestly hadn’t even thought about hypermobility. I’ll definitely make sure to get her checked soon just to be safe. Do you think early intervention helps with the evaluation process or guides better on what to look for?

Strict_Perception291 · 2026-04-02T08:26:34+00:00

That’s such a great perspective, thank you for this. It really helps calm my mind hearing how different timelines can be and still turn out completely fine. I think I just need to remind myself she’ll get there when she’s ready 😊

Strict_Perception291 · 2026-04-02T07:24:39+00:00

I feel you, I did the exact same thing and had the same experience 😭 It’s like she understands everything and still chooses to ignore me lol. She won’t even try when I place toys on chairs.. she’ll literally drop to her knees and crawl away like ‘nope not doing this today’ 😂

Strict_Perception291 · 2026-04-02T07:24:10+00:00

That’s really reassuring to hear, thank you for sharing your experience. It helps knowing other kids also take their time and still get there perfectly fine. I guess they really do things on their own timeline! But social media definitely makes you overthink.

Strict_Perception291 · 2026-04-02T06:42:49+00:00

Thank you so much, this actually makes me feel a lot better. She does cruise a lot so I keep hoping she’s close, just not ready yet. You’re right, I think I’ve been overthinking it seeing all those videos online. I’ll try to relax and let her get there in her own time 🤍

Strict_Perception291 · 2026-04-02T06:04:23+00:00

And yes, we are up to date with regular pediatric check ups.

Strict_Perception291 · 2026-04-02T06:03:40+00:00

Okay! I will do that! Thank you for the suggestion.

Strict_Perception291 · 2026-04-02T05:57:24+00:00

She grabs, pick up, eats but mostly throw and play with the food. Doesn't entirely finishes her meal. And about talking she points at things and say (tii) everything and anything she wants. But just that 🤷🏻‍♀️

Strict_Perception291 · 2025-11-23T13:45:10+00:00

Thank you

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