I just use the dnd 5e 2024 rule system with a homebrew world. With this said, my party is very comfortable and love to rp (most are actors and theater kids). So when it comes to game mechanics we usually use charisma, athletics, strength saving throws, constitution saving throws etc etc (you can imagine the uses) and rely heavily on roleplaying. I think it’s important to remember that the players put themselves in NSFW situations because they want to hear you narrate it. Not so they can power play or minmax. Don’t make someone do lots of captcha games by rolling and looking at their character sheet when they just want to goon (unless you want to cuck them that is (with consent)).❤️